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Best musical advice you ever got

Not really advice, but something my wife's dad said a while back. Some background: he used to be an award-winning, regularly gigging trumpet player (along with a few other instruments) until probably ten years ago but never pursued it as a career or anything but a hobby. Now he can't play like he used to and refuses to even try (he even gave us his trumpet).

He said that he regrets not having tried harder. He was really good, but once he was good enough that he always had a gig available, I don't think he ever tried to grow any more. Also, he wishes he had tried to make a career out of it when he could have.

I don't take that to mean I should try to make music my life and quit my day job or anything, but it made my wife and I both re-prioritize our music (she sings and plays guitar) so that we put our pursuit of music above some things that were previously getting in the way. Kind of a perspective shift.
 
OK, I will admit to not reading through all 29 pages of advice so far, so sorry if these have already come up:

One is a quote I saw attributed to Suzuki (as in the Suzuki method):

"The amateur practices until he gets it right, the professional practices until he can't get it wrong."

Which is good advice, but should be balanced with one from a therapy group:

"Not practice makes perfect - practice makes PROGRESS."