I was, when I first started out. Fortunately, I had a teacher, who helped me a lot. Also, I got to play with people, who were at the same level of experience, which helps. I made a lot of mistakes but I learned.Wow. Threads like this remind me why I am terrified of playing with other people. I enjoy the blues, enjoy playing it. But I have absolutely no idea what Beat 1 or 2 or 3 or 4 or whatever means, nor do I know what 10 or 11 or 12 bars means.
And I would be petrified to ask.
(and this is not a joke post, either)
Active listening helps a lot, not just recordings but actually watching and listening to live bands. After some time, I started to hear (or feel) the chord changes, without having to sit there count them.