A huge breakthrough however was when I discovered that it was actually possible to perform songs that I personally didn't care for--and still find a way to enjoy playing them! The first example that comes to mind: when they told me one of the songs that went over well was Baby Got Back. What? No way?? Trust us, they said, just do it. And when the singer broke into "I like Big Butts ..." suddenly every girl in the joint was on the dance floor shaking it. At that point a light bulb came on for me. Eventually we went on to throw in "Word Up" and "Wild Thang" (Tone Loc, not Troggs). Of course we kept on playing all the other songs folks can't seem to stand playing: Brown Eyed Girl, Sweet Home, Mustang Sally, Proud Mary, etc. We smiled and tried to put on a show even though we had all played those songs hundreds of times; the dance floor was packed and people were having fun listening to us play. So hey, Margaritaville? Sure! 867-5309? Sure!
I found out how much fun it is to allow other people to have fun, so I play what they want to hear. Then when I get in my car, I play what I want to listen to.