Well, where to begin? When I saw this thread the first time, it's as if I wrote the first posting. Sundogue plays the same kind of music as me, has been playing as long as me, has been playing rounds as long as me, has the exact same instrument mix in his band as me, has been struggling with the same "how do I make the rhythm section hit harder w/o just being louder" question as me. Got to say, it really freaked me out a bit.
Soooooooo, I'm in.
I strung my J with Chrome flats yesterday. Our lead player is on family vacation, so I've got a couple of weeks to break them in before our next rehearsal. I'm going to run a controlled experiment. I've got the drummer and keyboard player in on the switch, but I'm not telling the guitar players.

I'll post the results after I get some feedback from the boys in the band.
I will say this, I played them for about an hour yesterday and my bass just
seems to be in a lower register. I fully know it's not, but it just seems that way.
I would like to thank Sundogue for the very insightful original posting in this thread that helped me realize that no matter how much I love the guy - I'm not Geddy, I'll never be Geddy, my band isn't Rush, we'll never be Rush. What's that they say? The first step to a cure is admitting you have a problem.

Oh, the pain!
I'm holding on to my delusion that chicks dig me. It's all I have left...