I'm quite easy-going, though the longer I'm at it the less tolerant I am of BS and time-sucks. I meant to say that in my experience, learned the hard way, don't even joke about rehearsing in some circles or you'll get a very stern warning from some of the others. I've never pushed it to the point of finding out if they're bluffing.
Yeah, I caught your drift. It's still amusing in a puffed-up chest-beating sort of way. The posturing and threatening aspect, lol.
I've been playing in weekend cover bands for 35 years in two musically vibrant capitol cities, with lots of success at that level, and the hard-core elitist attitude you are describing has certainly never been the "norm" for me. I would venture to say it's not the norm for most of us in the cover band game.
My sympathies to you and your "circle."
After all, this is a business made up of and by people, so there's a human element there. It ain't the military, and for most of us it doesn't pay the rent. You shouldn't fear reprisals from BL or other members. There is no gang initiation or threat of violent hazing. And that's coming from the guy in the band who is usually on the more strict detail-oriented anal-retentive side.
"Survive to see the gig"????? Too funny--thanks for the chuckle, and stay safe my friend.
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