Thanks for tagging me in, it's an interesting problem. You know, a 3-way crossover is just two 2-way crossovers cascaded, right? So one solution is to simply use two 2-ways. Naturally the thingy I'm selling is much too bulky for this application, but I am prototyping some smaller thingies that might work. Maybe PM me?
There's also the issue of crossover steepness, that most people don't talk much about in pedalboard threads. The steeper the crossover, the more the phase gets mangled and the crossover gets complex quickly. I think first-order is actually better than higher-order crossovers for a blender scenario, but for a 3-way crossover you might want the bands to be more clearly defined, which suggests maybe second-order. That's a 180-degree phase twist, and you'll be cascading two of those to get a 3-way. It can be done, but you're starting to cram a lot of circuitry into a pedal-sized box, and making a 2nd or 3rd order sweepable makes the controls quite complex (translation: more expensive and difficult to source), which I assume is why some designs use separate knobs for high/lowpass instead of a single one.
So, maybe first consider whether first-order crossovers will suit your needs. If so, it's simple. If not, this could get much more interesting. :>