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Dang...

I got it bad for this girl i met while i was playing in a musical at a nearby high school.

I don't know what to do... she lives about 40 minutes away so I can't exactly get to know her that easily. The best thing right now is myspace. I know all you TBer's are great with this kind of thing (:)).

:help:
 
yeah man. if you got her number then give her a ring and meet halfway. Do something interesting and be exciting. Women hate the same boring dates with the same boring questions talking about boring life. Make it fun and interesting and spontaneous, and she'll be calling you back.

if you didn't get her number, then you could do the myspace thing but unless you held a conversation with her its kinda wierd (stalkerish).

good luck bro, have at em
 
clay said:
you turn 17 soon.

is that the age you can get your license?

i have my licence. And i mapquested it and she actually only lives 25 minutes away. Her school is 45 minutes away. So this could actually work.

This was my plan... get to know her by having conversations with her over the internet/phone. Then set up a triple date where i bring one couple and she brings another. I dunno if it would work out, but we could go to the movies/dinner or something. :confused:
 
FunkSlap89 said:
This was my plan... get to know her by having conversations with her over the internet/phone. Then set up a triple date where i bring one couple and she brings another. I dunno if it would work out, but we could go to the movies/dinner or something. :confused:

86 the chump stuff, man. Just grab a pair of binoculars and go stake out her house. Wait until the house is empty, then let yourself in and do a little research. You know, figure out what she likes and doesn't like, see if you have any common ground... all that good stuff. On your way out, you can leave a note on her bed or desk saying that you've been watching her for a while and would really like to get to know her, but try not to sound desperate or psycho. Also, if you're going to steal any panties or beach pictures or anything, I wouldn't leave the note.

Good luck!
 
fookgub said:
86 the chump stuff, man. Just grab a pair of binoculars and go stake out her house. Wait until the house is empty, then let yourself in and do a little research. You know, figure out what she likes and doesn't like, see if you have any common ground... all that good stuff. On your way out, you can leave a note on her bed or desk saying that you've been watching her for a while and would really like to get to know her, but try not to sound desperate or psycho. Also, if you're going to steal any panties or beach pictures or anything, I wouldn't leave the note.

Good luck!

:eyebrow:

are you jiving me right now?
 
fookgub said:
86 the chump stuff, man. Just grab a pair of binoculars and go stake out her house. Wait until the house is empty, then let yourself in and do a little research. You know, figure out what she likes and doesn't like, see if you have any common ground... all that good stuff. On your way out, you can leave a note on her bed or desk saying that you've been watching her for a while and would really like to get to know her, but try not to sound desperate or psycho. Also, if you're going to steal any panties or beach pictures or anything, I wouldn't leave the note.

Good luck!

Fookgub knows where it's at.


But instead of leaving a note on her bed, you should be waiting there for her, naked, with a rose in your mouth. When she finally comes home, you say, "what took so long, baby?"

This should work.
 
i dunno, i dont see the need for friends to tag along, esp if your not going to know her friends, it causes tension if you and her friends dont get along

i would have just talked to her for a few days online and then asked her to get some coffee or somethin, maybe dinner but nothing big.....it gets easier as you get older and wiser, hell i asked a girl out while on stage at out last show, didnt ammount to much, but we had fun while it lasted