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Dating an older woman?

#108
Opinion..

It's not worth the drama.. A ton changes in a young guy between 18-25.. this really isn't the time to start this kind of stuff.. it's more the time to figure out your preferences and future.

When I was 22 I dated a 50 year old.. it was a mess that still occasionally haunts me.

The 40 year old interested in a 19 year old probably has some issues before even saying "Hi"

This said from a 40 year old who frequently admires the beauty only youth owns.

T.



mattsbass said:
Well my co worker who is 43 asked me if I wanted to "hang out" with her sometime.

I am 19.

Why would a 43 Y/O divorced mother of 2 want to hang out with a 19 y/o kid?

She has been coming on too me for months and I honestly am just noticing things now because I am quite naive to these things.

I am quite stumped on what to do. Should I just rail her and call it a day? But what if my intentions are incorrect?

Hmmm...
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#111
She's cougaring up! She's going thru what I like to call "The Divorce Crazies". She needs some fun. Some no-strings, non-committal, fun. She's been committed to one man for however-many years, and she's been raising kids, and now she needs to have fun and feel like a *woman* again, not just a wife/mommy.

Sugar, go make her feel like a woman. Don't fall in love. She's had enough of that for a long while, and when she's ready for it again, she'll choose someone nearer her own age, mostly likely. Just go have fun, and remember her fondly when she moves on.

Cherie
 
#112
Oh my GOD. I'm 23 and dating a girl who's 29, and I thought THAT was a big difference. 20+ years is freakin crazy, I don't know if I could handle that.
I think the universal rules for banging older women come into play here:
1 -- Is there commitment involved? If no, proceed to question 2.
2 -- Is she still attractive/tight/not old and wrinkly? If yes, hit it.
If the answer to question 1 is "yes", GTFO now. You're better off with your hand than all the crap that comes with a 40-something mother of 2.
 
#113
txbasschik said:
She's cougaring up! She's going thru what I like to call "The Divorce Crazies". She needs some fun. Some no-strings, non-committal, fun. She's been committed to one man for however-many years, and she's been raising kids, and now she needs to have fun and feel like a *woman* again, not just a wife/mommy.

Sugar, go make her feel like a woman. Don't fall in love. She's had enough of that for a long while, and when she's ready for it again, she'll choose someone nearer her own age, mostly likely. Just go have fun, and remember her fondly when she moves on.

Cherie
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I hope the OP had the chance to tap her by now.
 
#114
This thread has given me the confidence to admit that I like older women - really older women. I hear the term GILF thrown around and while that is the case, I prefer to use a more respectful phrase. I just like to call myself a blue-hair chaser.

I know lots of you will scoff, but if you knew all of the things I've learned from sexy geriatrics you'd change your tune: things like how much things used to cost in the 50's, the best tennis ball brand for the bottom of a walker, which hard candy is best for keeping at the bottom of your purse to give to grandkids. Amazing stuff.

I would say that you just need to be careful with your passion. My last septuagenarian lovely had a "you break it, you bought it" policy with regards to lovemaking and that hip replacement surgery cost me a pretty penny.
 
#117
Jared Lash said:
This thread has given me the confidence to admit that I like older women - really older women. I hear the term GILF thrown around and while that is the case, I prefer to use a more respectful phrase. I just like to call myself a blue-hair chaser.

I know lots of you will scoff, but if you knew all of the things I've learned from sexy geriatrics you'd change your tune: things like how much things used to cost in the 50's, the best tennis ball brand for the bottom of a walker, which hard candy is best for keeping at the bottom of your purse to give to grandkids. Amazing stuff.

I would say that you just need to be careful with your passion. My last septuagenarian lovely had a "you break it, you bought it" policy with regards to lovemaking and that hip replacement surgery cost me a pretty penny.
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Jared, I'm quite shocked :eek:
you're the only person I've met that embraces this fetish.
 
#118
Jared Lash said:
This thread has given me the confidence to admit that I like older women - really older women. I hear the term GILF thrown around and while that is the case, I prefer to use a more respectful phrase. I just like to call myself a blue-hair chaser.

I know lots of you will scoff, but if you knew all of the things I've learned from sexy geriatrics you'd change your tune: things like how much things used to cost in the 50's, the best tennis ball brand for the bottom of a walker, which hard candy is best for keeping at the bottom of your purse to give to grandkids. Amazing stuff.

I would say that you just need to be careful with your passion. My last septuagenarian lovely had a "you break it, you bought it" policy with regards to lovemaking and that hip replacement surgery cost me a pretty penny.
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Lmao!
 
#119
Jared Lash said:
This thread has given me the confidence to admit that I like older women - really older women. I hear the term GILF thrown around and while that is the case, I prefer to use a more respectful phrase. I just like to call myself a blue-hair chaser.

I know lots of you will scoff, but if you knew all of the things I've learned from sexy geriatrics you'd change your tune: things like how much things used to cost in the 50's, the best tennis ball brand for the bottom of a walker, which hard candy is best for keeping at the bottom of your purse to give to grandkids. Amazing stuff.

I would say that you just need to be careful with your passion. My last septuagenarian lovely had a "you break it, you bought it" policy with regards to lovemaking and that hip replacement surgery cost me a pretty penny.
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This post owns this thread. :D
 
#120
Older women are great! The day (well the last few hours of) before my 21st birthday was spent with a hot 37 year old ex-budweiser model. We had plenty of fun (for a few hours) and then I never saw her again, but she certainly showed me a few things and I probably have her to blame for my sexual addiction. My girlfriend is only 2 years older than me, but they certaily count for a lot.
 

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