Delightful Diva - Not!

She sounds like a piece of work. And it is a bar, so her already questionable personallity might have been notched up a bit by alcohol. You handled it well as a professional would.

Take a deep breath and be glad that you aren't doing her sound.

 

Kinda sounds like a Cougar come-on act, y'know? And hell hath no fury...etc.

 

Maybe it was her awkward way to get your attention?

 

In her own weird way, she may just wanted to get a conversation going with you and started it by talking shop. When she started to coil a cable, she was letting you know
that she was in the same club as you. I think she felt rejected. Just my take on it.

 

tell her to move the 810 bass cab next HAHA

 

You see?!? I'm glad that I'm not the only one who is feeling pitty for that desperate woman. A lady coiling a caple... That's pure LOVE!!

 

She was flirting with you. Storming away was a weird female way of saving face, since you were being dense about it.

Not the most charming way to approach someone, but then she was probably six beers in at that point.

 

I'd go with the "six beers in" theory, because all I got from the conversation was a very strong "beat it, toots" vibe.

 

If she was cable wrapping over/under, I'd have let her do them all.

 

Five bucks says her singing experience doesn't exceed much past being in the vocal choir of her church's Christmas pageant.

I have had females do and say weird things to flirt with me, though. I guess guys don't have a monopolgy on doing steroetypically stupid things to get someone of the opposite gender's attention.

 

It seems all she really wanted to do was to handle your cable.

 

Dang... send her here.... my wife hasn't touched my cord in..... wait, that didn't sound right....

 

Yup yup yup yup.

 

Nope....

People like this want to feel like they are important and part of the band. It's classic.

 

So you are saying she might want to be invited to sit in sometime in the future?

 

Sounds indeed like she was interested in you and you didn't recognize the details. Or she was maybe trying to get into your band as a singer.

Hint. Next time something like this happens, let them do all the talking, by listening you could quickly find out their real motivations as talking will deliver the information.

 

Lies. You don't knock on a stranger's house without a definite reason or invitation. You knock on a friend's house and see if they want to hang. You have to be REALLY tight before you can walk in unannounced and grab a beer out of the fridge. Ditto for other people's gear. And it's pretty hard to spend any time in sound/music without learning that.

I'm thinking this was the gender-swapped equivalent of male BS-ing to impress a chick. With a similar success rate.

 

Nope. She just wants people to think she's important.