On the flip side of this is my drummer. He is in his late 20s, good looking, tall, skinny, charismatic, and he can play the hell out of some drums. People just love him and people just love the way he plays. He just has that “it” factor, he really does. He’s even easy to work with and is just a sweet person. But he doesn’t know the first thing about technique or music theory. He legit learned to play drums by playing those Rock Band games until one day he could play drums. He doesn’t know how to count off a song (I count off most of them), he doesn’t know what it means to play on the “and of 3”, he doesn’t know much about meter or tempo, etc. But he can somehow play so well and I wouldn’t replace him with anyone else because for the music I write, I don’t need him to play anything overly crazy anyway, and everything he brings to the music is just special. And when he nails it, he makes me happy so it’s all worth it.
I always tell him, and I fully believe it, that if he learned a tiny bit of theory and fundamentals, he could be tearing it up professionally. I get gigs all the time because I can learn things and understand other musicians instantly. That, plus I don’t make a scene, is why I get gigs. I tell him that he could understand and visualize so much more if he himself had a way of seeing music in a structured manner. I would start a band with him in a heartbeat even if I started over again. But to recommend him to someone else for the kind of gigs I get, I think he needs a little bit of study. It doesn’t have to be classical style formal education. It just has to be some way of grasping structure in some form. Without that, it’s hard to be more than just a musician in the context of a band.