One thing I always found interesting…
The few times I did get paid for music at religious services were the times I neither expected to be paid nor asked to be.
For the record I have never asked to be paid for a religious service, although there was one time I took a musical director job with a church and was told that I would be paid, although I never was.
When I mentioned I’ d been managing the choir and music program for half a year but had yet to see any promised checks to one congregant at that particular church who was on some sort of board there, the person looked at me with a shocked expression and said that while I
would be paid, it was “understood” in that church that the money would immediately be given back to the church as a donation. “It’s the way it’s always been done here,” he told me. “No parishioner ever accepts money from the church.”
When I pointed out I wasn’t a member of the congregation, he just looked at me blankly, as though he was confused by what I just said, and then did an about face and walked away.
That was definitely a weird moment for me trying to parse his “would be paid” but wouldn’t be paid dialectic.
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Never saw a dime from that engagement.