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Does sex with an ex always cause complications?

Are you interested in getting back together with her?

If you are, be careful. If she isn't interested and just wants to have sex, it's hard to not get emotionally involved in a bad way. Thus complications.

If you don't want to get back together, be honest about it and you shouldn't get into too much trouble. I had a ex that I had to constantly remind "I'm not going to be your boyfriend again. If you're not alright with that we need to stop doing this." It kept expectations realistic for both of us.

That having been said, I am wont to say GO FOR IT! Consequences?? pffftt...:bassist:

also, wear a condom
 
I'm in this exact situation right now...

We're having our fun, but I think she's thinking long term again, & that's just not gonna happen. For now, its ok... But, I can tell I'm going to have to re-direct her thinking really soon.

The one problem it does cause, is you never really fully move on from your ex if you leave it lingering.
 
...The one problem it does cause, is you never really fully move on from your ex if you leave it lingering.


That is the problem. Sex is never uncomplicated because as soon as either one of the two sees someone else with which they want a "real" relationship, the one who gets left behind will be bitter, and crap is likely to get stirred up.:scowl:
 
Sex With Ex:

Would you do it in a car?

Would you do it in a bar?

Would you do it in your house?

Would you do it like a mouse?

Would you do it on the table?

Would you do it like Betty Grable?

Would you do it on a bike?

Would you do it any way you like?

Would you do it here or there?

Would you do it anywhere?

I will not do it in a boat!

I will not do it in a moat!

I will not do it in a tree!

I will not do it for cheap or free!

I will not do it on a hill!

I will not do it on the pill!

I will not do it behind the door!

I will not do it while eating smores!

I will not do it like Luthor, Lex!

I will not have Sex with an EX!!!
 
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Yup, this wins.