A few random thoughts:
Keeping good time as a bass player is what it's all about and to that end I have no issues playing without a drummer - but of course it still goes without saying that to play with a great drummer is one of the joys of playing bass. Unfortunately, where I live, drummers in general - let alone competent drummers - are very few and far between these days.
I will say this though ( as a general observation ). After 40 years of playing, I can count on one hand the number of drummers I've played with who had really good time, and ALL of them have been rock guys. One in particular was so good that when he started playing I felt like I was levitating 3 feet off the floor. Grooving with him was effortless - like walking on air, or driving a powerboat at full speed across a glassy ocean, steering with your index finger. He led the band like an absolute boss (RIP Ashley).
To balance the discussion I should say that I've played with a few rock guys to whom even the most basic rudiments/concepts seemed unattainable.
Alas, I'd say only 30% of the 'jazz guys' I've played with have had great time. The other 70% - were just ok. Several in particular 'swung' like the proverbial rusty gate. Why? because they just try and finesse too much. Ever traded fours with a drummer who always comes back in one beat too late? It's frustrating ( to say the least ). And I'm not talking about slouches here. Some of these guys were conservatory trained...
Playing with a good one though...look out !
It really takes all kinds here in North Texas. In the 80's, great drummers were hard to come by. These days, it's much easier. Last week, I had gigs on bass with 4 different drummers, all in pickup bands, and all were extremely tight, with big ears.
OTOH, I went to a jam last night - A Sunday night thing for the past almost-20 years at a local restaurant - a meet up and 'union hall' of sorts where we trade pickup and sub gigs.
It was a slow night with not a lot of jammers. I saw where a particular drummer was in the audience whose only opportunity to play with others was probably for a few songs at the jam each week. He could swing ok, but lacked snap, and sometimes had trouble landing exactly back on one.
The BL asked me after the host band's first set if I brought a guitar or bass; When I told him bass, he said, "that's too bad, we don't have any guitar players tonight.", and asked if I would play his guitar and sing a short set with the lesser experienced drummer. I told him I would if I could then play a set on bass with a better drummer, thinking that would be the house band guy.
So after finishing my set with the first drummer on guitar, I grabbed my bass as the BL came back up and strapped on his guitar. He brought up another drummer who was visiting from, you'll love this, your country. Not sure exactly where, but from the accent, he sounded like he might be from WA. I'd guess Perth, but maybe not.
He was outstanding in every sense. Tight, dynamic, great sense of pocket, served the song and could break it down when needed. Pure pleasure to play with, and definitely made it worth the trade off of playing earlier with the less experienced guy (and doing my trained-monkey-guitar-and-vocals thing).
BTW, IME, it's much easier to tolerate a less-than-time-sensitive drummer on guitar than bass.