I'm reporting on the success of another "tom holder" stand mod (original post quoted below for convenience) to my beloved 5-string EUB.

Keep reading if you are interested in a few tidbits I gathered along the way.
First, in a side discussion with Jesse, I learned that he is not currently planning to make this tom holder connector standard equipment. It comes down to price, which he's making every effort to keep low, so Ergos are affordable for as many of us as possible! The tom stuff is an additional $70-80 of stuff all told, in addition to the cost of the stand itself, which has already nearly doubled for Jesse. Wood and everything else keep going up too. The bottom line is that if you want basses at the current prices, order soon! I'm guessing we're close to the deadline for getting one made in time for HannuChrisKwanzSolstice, so don't delay, make it a merry holiday for both you and the Blue family. I still enjoy making people guess the price of my bass (when they ask) and then seeing their jaws drop when I tell them it was well under $1000, soup to nuts.
OK, some other things related to construction that I didn't see anywhere else:
- To leave in the original post or not? The original modder (kissmybASS01) said it was so loose he removed by hand. Another (Marc61) said he just left the post in there. Me, I was able to get it out by applying a big wrench to the cymbal stand connector and twisting. It popped right out for me, with no wood damage, but I was advised by Jesse to leave it there if the wood started to creak.
- For me, putting the tom holder joint directly in the top of the old cymbal stand (i.e. not having the Pearl AX-20 horizontal connector) was too short, so I did get that part and add it.
- To leave the plastic ring under the BT-3 that attaches to the bass, or not? I left it on as a gasket and also used it (at the advice of kissmybASS01) as a template to drill the holes.
- Put the BT-3 connector on the bass upside down or not? I oriented it so that the hand screw is oriented down and away from where my right hand plucks. Not that I think my hand would ever hit it, but hey, out of sight, out of mind.
- I pre-drilled the holes for the screws, then again at the advice of kissmybASS01, I used the cordless drill at low torque to screw them in. I started low and then cranked it up just enough to get the screws down tight, but no more than that.
I hope this info helps. In retrospect, the biggest obstacle for a non-craftsman type such as me was getting up the courage to drill into a perfectly good musical instrument!