I agree with this, too. I don't for a moment consider myself a musical "genius" of any sort, because I'm certainly not that. But I do come from a musical family (my mom's side was very Carter family-ish) and I do seem to learn music in a different way from most people, which is one reason I think about this so much.
I have to conclude that there are different degrees of aptitude; you can call that talent if you want, and I am pretty certain I would have been better served if I had better instruction and encouragement in my younger years. Particularly, when I studied piano it was a bit of a disaster as the teacher was using a method that didn't even have me playing a piano at all, just pretending to play on a plastic keyboard. So I'd come home and play whatever I wanted to on my own piano. I had books and I could figure out chords because I knew what the notes were on the keyboard, so I'd just play through the chord changes and sing along with that. I've never gotten good at piano but I can play well enough to write a song.
I did have some early encouragement from a music teacher in grade school, which was very helpful, and I learned fundamental things there, enough that I knew how to coax a sound out of a few types of instruments, and ultimately that was helpful. But voice was what I was really good at because I never needed an instrument to do that - I was born with that instrument in my throat and all I had to do was listen to make it do what I wanted. So that was my entry into music as a profession, but ultimately I ended up with bass as a necessity, and took to it very well.
So this is a long-winded confession that I do have some personal interest in this subject because I seem to learn differently from most, but I hesitate to personalize it too much because, as I said, people think I don't exist.
I play Bass. My 7 y/o grandson is into all things music. He keeps "borrowing" his sister's guitar much to her displeasure. Thinking I could ease the home situation, and divest myself of an unplayed instrument, I offered him a mandolin. Told him to take it home and mess around with it, see if he liked it. With big puppy dog eyes, he assured me he wouldn't mess around with it, he would take care of it and play it! That was my 2nd warning.
Two days later, his Dad called me to say Hunter had been watching mandolin videos and doesn't understand what they are saying. Hunter wants ME to teach him how to play mandolin! Uh oh, 3rd warning, and RED ALERT!
Okay, I'm thinking. All I have to do is stay ahead of him, right? How hard can that be? Depends on how hard I want to make it. Remembering my instructors telling me, "Just learn your scales, that's all you need," without explanation of what a scale is, I decided to start with "This is a mandolin, there are many like it. This one is yours. Here are the names of all the parts."
So, put an instrument in the hands of a child. Make sure they have a tuner, strap, and a bag for everything. Teach them how to care for their instrument and keep it safe. Assure the parents that accidents will happen and can be dealt with. Set aside a regular time to meet with the student, and make sure you honor that commitment. Be gentle and loving. Give them what you wish YOU had been given. Make it up as you go along. Remember, it's called playing for a reason. Have fun! If you can, allow extra time to teach a young one how to play checkers or Yahtzee.
Thanks for listening. If Hunter maintains interest, He will understand "music theory" before he ever hears the term. He will be able to read music without knowing how he learned. This is the best thing I have ever done!
P.S. I had to buy another mandolin so I could SHOW him what I was teaching him. What was I thinking?