I'll echo my experience here as well.
I started out years ago as a speed metal guitarist. 8-9years later When I switched to bass, I did so for a much more mellow type of music in the band I was in. So I learned finger style. It came very naturally to me. I just went with it. I was exclusively fingerstyle for nigh on 15years.
The cover band I'm in currently though, does a lot of 90s pop punk and 80s rock. 4hrs of 16th notes will wear any fingerplayer out. On one brutal, three show weekend, I was all blistered up and had no choice but to play the last hour or so with the guitarists pick. I felt clumsy, had trouble holding on to the pick, but got through the set. I enjoyed the sound esp on the he pop punk stuff. On the drive home, I realized I was killing myself for no reseal reason. I don't have to prove anything to anyone, and I know if I need to....I can play say, "Kickstart my Heart" with my fingers. But why would I??? Why was I trying to??? The original recording is a pick, it sounds better with a pick, and it's easier on my hands/ wrist with a pick.
So now I am playing maybe 70/30 fingerstyle, but on 3 show weekends, I don't mind trying to cover almost all the songs with a pick now on set two and three on day three. Lol. It's kind of a relief. I've gotten to where I will do some songs with a pick, just for giggles to rest my hand. It's quite freeing.
I need to work on my technique as well however, as I am burning the top of my index fingernail when picking. I'm going to do what you should do OP and follow the advice of these guys and check out some instructional videos.
I started out years ago as a speed metal guitarist. 8-9years later When I switched to bass, I did so for a much more mellow type of music in the band I was in. So I learned finger style. It came very naturally to me. I just went with it. I was exclusively fingerstyle for nigh on 15years.
The cover band I'm in currently though, does a lot of 90s pop punk and 80s rock. 4hrs of 16th notes will wear any fingerplayer out. On one brutal, three show weekend, I was all blistered up and had no choice but to play the last hour or so with the guitarists pick. I felt clumsy, had trouble holding on to the pick, but got through the set. I enjoyed the sound esp on the he pop punk stuff. On the drive home, I realized I was killing myself for no reseal reason. I don't have to prove anything to anyone, and I know if I need to....I can play say, "Kickstart my Heart" with my fingers. But why would I??? Why was I trying to??? The original recording is a pick, it sounds better with a pick, and it's easier on my hands/ wrist with a pick.
So now I am playing maybe 70/30 fingerstyle, but on 3 show weekends, I don't mind trying to cover almost all the songs with a pick now on set two and three on day three. Lol. It's kind of a relief. I've gotten to where I will do some songs with a pick, just for giggles to rest my hand. It's quite freeing.
I need to work on my technique as well however, as I am burning the top of my index fingernail when picking. I'm going to do what you should do OP and follow the advice of these guys and check out some instructional videos.