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Gaining weight?

I need to gain weight, I eat a lot, but I never gain weight.I'm not sporty too... What would you suggest I should do? I'm 14 years old and I weigh 51kg.
I'm not sure about my height but i think its 5,4"/5,6".

What exercises would you recommend? I've been exercising for a few months now.
 
Uh, you're FOURTEEN. Don't do anything. Do not lift weights, or **** with your diet, because you can screw yourself up for a LONG time. Your body has recently launched itself in what will physically be one of the most transitional periods in your entire life -- think about it like shoving a stick into the wheel of a bicycle.

Bad idea. Wait until you're 16/17 or so.

EDIT: Actually, I need to reiterate. It's not that you shouldn't be active or look to make yourself in better shape at all, but dramatic changes in size by changing your diet and constantly breaking your balls lifting is not a good idea. Lift a couple times a week, but don't go too crazy. Keep that 5-6 day a week stuff for a couple years from now. My friend used to be 110lbs, but with (an absurd amount of) exercise, specialized eating, and one too many supplements, he was up to 170 at one point of just muscle. The gain still would've been significant (probably up to 150 or 155) without supplements.

Also, as far as supplements go, just don't use them yet. If you MUST, look up Creatine and NO2, but if you see anything with a testosterone booster, pass it right by. Puberty + hormone supplements = baaaaaaad idea.
 
If you want to work out feel free to workout with your weight

pushups, pullups, Up-Downs, and situps are all fine

they really won't make you gain any weight but will get you in good physical shape for when you can, and you'll do good on the physical fitness tests in gym ;)

you shouldn't touch a weight until you're 16
 
Be patient, you're 14. No exercise program (in and of itself) will create weight gain.

Why do you feel you should gain weight outside of your normal growth? Is there a specific goal in mind?

At 14 you should avoid ALL athletic supplements. You could supplement your diet with quality meal replacement mixes or protein mixes (or bars) and I would suggest any teenager avoid the majority of those available in the franchise/grocery stores due to the artificial ingredients/synthetic hormonal based compounds found in most. Only use when you are 100% certain what it is you are ingesting.

The most solid advice I could suggest is to eat a variety of whole foods including fruits and vegetables. If you must have dairy products use only organic products (grazed animals not filled with hormones and antibiotics as these toxins do get passed on to whatever eats the animal products).

Stay active with various activities, you most likely don't need a targeted exercise program per se if you aren't involved in competitive sporting.

If you MUST gain weight and want to stay healthy while doing so, eat more frequently and moderate your activity.
 
Hmm, if my conversion is correct, at 14 you are 5'6" and 112 lbs. Sorry, Euro's, I'm still not able think in metric.

At 14 my son was 6'1" and 125 lbs.(56 kg) Now that's thin. He's now 18, 6'3" and 175 lbs. or 79 kg. And he runs and works out constantly (Futbol and Running). Give it time, and don't miss a meal.
 
Like others have said, you're 14, so I wouldn't worry about it.

However, don't buy into any garbage of not changing your diet or lifting weights. Utter BS. I mean, what Aaron said is true, but others will tell you to just not do ANYTHING, which is stupid.

Eating healthy is good no matter the age, and weight lifting stunting your growth is crap. If you want to do it, then go ahead. But don't over-do it.
 
I need to gain weight...What exercises would you recommend? I've been exercising for a few months now.

Do "compound" exercises. The example routine below lists a number of compound exercises - you'll get the idea.

I'm not a doctor... is anyone else here?

I think there is debate regarding what age is approriate to start lifting weights. 16, 14 etc... I would encourage a 14 year old to lift weights if they show an interest. The caution expressed in the above posts is valid: start light, start slow. But establishing a simple routine would be very valuable, and could yield a lifetime of rewards.

A simple routine to gain weight would look like this:

Squats (2 sets x 10-15 reps) *
Deadlifts (2 sets x 10-15 reps) *
Bench Press (2 sets x 8-12 reps) *
Chinups / Pulldowns (2 sets x 8-12 reps) *
Bent-over barbell rows (1 set x 8-12 reps)
Seated dumbell press (2 sets x 8-12 reps) *
Wide grip barbell upright rows (1 set x 8-12 reps)
One-legged calve raises (2 sets 10-20 reps) *
Lying barbell tricep extension (1 set x 8-12 reps)
Barbell bicep curls (1 set x 8-12 reps)
Crunches (2 sets x 25 reps)

* - do an additional warm-up set with half the weight. Take all other sets to failure. (ex squats would be 1 warm up set + 2 sets to failure). Caution - don't injure yourself!! When you're able to achieve the maximum number of reps, increase the amount of weight. Keep a log book - very important to record last week's workout. This routine could be performed twice per week.

This is known as an "efficiency-of-effort" routine. There are a limited number of exercises and sets, so a person doesn't wear themself out. After 6 weeks of hard training-to-failure, do two weeks of training where you stop short of failure 2 or 3 reps.

The key is intensity - train harder, not longer. Notice that sprinter has huge legs compared to a marathon runner. Short bursts of intensity builds muscle, not lengthy routines.

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Actually I'd encourage the opposite: don't train to failure most of the time, but every now and then do it. Especially when you're just starting out.

EDIT: And MAKE SURE you know how to do the exercises properly before putting on a bunch of weight. Have someone teach you if at all possible.
 
Lots of differing opinions here, and lots of debate. These threads always amuse me. Hopefully the OP returns to let us know what he was aiming for when asking the question.

Bass - sent you a pm, sounds like you've been at it for a while. I don't run into many others these days since I gave up the big weights.