My retirement bag is a little unusual, I guess. When I retired from teaching 15 years ago, I already had the parrot rescue running. Abi has her own business that runs here on the property. The place was paid off long before retirement, and we had zero debt. We don't travel, or eat out, or go to entertainments. We have ten acres of timber and wetland, and no near neighbors.
So, we just get up every day and do what we do, because that's what we want to do. If Abi wants a day off, she takes it...no deadlines in her business. We have enough land and gardens etc to indulge in whatever outdoorsy stuff we choose. I keep my music in a room at the back of the second floor, and until covid, had two weekly jams to go to, plus the occasional paid gig.
If I feel like I need to work with my hands, there's a nicely equipped woodshop in the basement, a setup for heavy woodwork like framing in the garage, and a bench for leatherwork in the music room.
Bottom line? We both have a variety of things to do, and neither of us really has much need for other people. (except the jams).
Kinda feel like Tom Bombadill.