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Getting Girls HELP!!!!!!

#23
This is how you get started man.

Preparation
1.When you are out and about you need to look as good as you possibly can. This is all the time, not just when you are looking for a girlfriend. If you look really bad one day, and a girl sees you on that day, you can forget about ever going with her. So look your best.
2.Dress like what you want. This is simple, if you want a preppy girl then dress like a preppy guy. If you want a rocker chick, dress liek a rocker guy. Pretty easy right.
3.Accept the fact that some girls just simply arent going to be interested in you for what ever reason. Dont freak out when you get rejected just move on to the next one.
4.Go after the girl that you want. Not the girl that everybody else tells you you want. This is a big problem I see a lot. Find the one that makes you happy.
5.If you are not happy and content being alone with yourself, then you arent ready to go get someone else. If your not happy with yourself, what makes you think anyone else will be happy with you? Dont think that a girl is the answer to your problems because they arent.
6.It is not all about finding a girl that you want; as much as finding a girl that wants you for what you are.


Meeting Girls for the first time.
1. See preparation tip 2? This also applies for where you go to meet the lady. If you want a religious girl go to religious groups and meetings, If you want a clubbing type girl, go to the club, ect.
2.When you find a girl that you like you are ready to approach her. The most important thing you need is confidence. Every girl wants a confident guy, that is 100% fact. This doesnt mean be arrogant. Just dont get quiet and shy and dont stutter when your talking to her.
3.Introduce yourself with your name, and one interesting fact about yourself. You do not need to have a 5 page introduction.
4.After she has given you her name, you need to ask her questions about herself. Girls are verbal by nature, and they like to talk. Make sure that you ask good questions. A good question asks the lady about herself, and requires a long answer, as apposed to "How are you?" -"Good." End of conversation.
5.Pay attention to what she says, and remember it. If you succeed at getting her to be your girlfriend, you will need to know stuff about her. In short you will be quizzed.
6.You want her to be talking about 75% of the time, your 25% should be cool, and make since in the flow of conversation. Thats all your responsible for, just try not to bore her, and try to sound interesting.
7.Avoid large groups of girls together. They are in a large group of girls, because they dont want to talk to guys at that time. Yes, if your skills are better than mine you can probably handle group situations. It is significantly harder than talking to a girl one on one though. My advice is to stay away.
 
#28
unclejam said:
Well how do you do it? i seem to be laking in this area so all help needed.

:help:
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Are you sure you can't get girls, or is it that you can't get the girls you would like to have? If it is the latter, date the girls that are interested. You may end up liking them much more than you think you would, and it is a fact that women notice men who have women. It's similar to the fact that people with jobs always can get jobs more easily than people without jobs.

It's also a possibility that you are smitten with girls that are just out of your league. If that is the case, take my first advice, and date the ones you can, if you stay out there long enough, you will pull a 10 sometimes just due the law of averages. Once you do, you will see that 10 is just another girl, that you may or may not like anymore than any other girls once you get over her great looks and fine body!;)
 
#30
unclejam said:
Hey Don't be Di*k Heads im serious ive Help you guys out in the past so why can't yall return the favor respectfully?
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Because a thread like this is just begging for abuse.
What I've learned:

  • be yourself
  • be confident even if that's not yourself
  • humor works well
  • women aren't into looks as much as men are
  • stand up tall...I swear: body language helps
  • If she gently touches you even with 1 finger like your arm, then you've got one foot in the door
  • My best line with a 100% kill rate: "I know Roger Sadowsky. You're pretty stoked huh?"
    ;)
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#34
Lower your standards. First off you're in HS. In HS it's about quantity, because EVERYTHING is pretty much quality. Hit everything you can and hit it hard. If a chick looks at you cross-eyed get her number. If a chick smiles at you in class get her number. If a chick laughs at you, or your jokes (the difference doesn't matter) get her number. Run a phone conversations with no less than ten at a time. IM with no less than ten at a time. It's a numbers game. If you bag a fattie, thank her for the memory bank spank submission and move on. Don't fall for the fatties. Don't fall for any of them. Hit it until they flip out and then move on. It's about quantity. Repeat after me. It's about quantity!!!!!
 
#35
MakiSupaStar said:
Lower your standards. First off you're in HS. In HS it's about quantity, because EVERYTHING is pretty much quality. Hit everything you can and hit it hard. If a chick looks at you cross-eyed get her number. If a chick smiles at you in class get her number. If a chick laughs at you, or your jokes (the difference doesn't matter) get her number. Run a phone conversations with no less than ten at a time. IM with no less than ten at a time. It's a numbers game. If you bag a fattie, thank her for the memory bank spank submission and move on. Don't fall for the fatties. Don't fall for any of them. Hit it until they flip out and then move on. It's about quantity. Repeat after me. It's about quantity!!!!!
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This is so true. When I drop my son off at high school and see the girls, OMG, have mercy. I feel like my thoughts would get me arrested.
 
#36
JimS said:
This is so true. When I drop my son of at high school and see the girls, OMG, have mercy. I feel like my thoughts would get me arrested.
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Guide him well dad. My son has another 11 years before he hits high school. However, he does get a lot of hotties in low cut tops bending over to talk to him. He's a little blonde-haired japanese kid. Chicks dig him. After a day at the beach I pay him back with an ice cream. LOL. :D
 
#37
hmmmm 4string advice makes sense, meeting the girls

Maki's works too but a different style, he lacks explaining how to get these 10 gals to talk to yah.


So yah 4strings is best

I've been told confidence is big, but how is the means to get this confidence, I know I have little.
 
#40
peaveyuser said:
hmmmm 4string advice makes sense, meeting the girls

Maki's works too but a different style, he lacks explaining how to get these 10 gals to talk to yah.


So yah 4strings is best

I've been told confidence is big, but how is the means to get this confidence, I know I have little.
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You want to know how to talk to them. You walk up to them. Smile. And say: "Hi I'm Uncle Jam. I think you're hot. I'd like to call you and get to know you some more. Will you give me your number?"

If they say no, make sure you walk over to the next chick (within site of the first chick) and do the same thing with her. I've done this, and the chicks have sought me out after they've changed they're mind. Nothing makes you more appealing to a chick than the prospect of you not giving her any attention. Chicks hate that.

EDIT: If they say no, be gracious too. Sympathy is a great way to get laid too. But if you're forward and direct there will be no confusion as to whether you are a friend or a prospect.
 

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