Getting Girls HELP!!!!!!

[bopeuph]

Men tend to have affairs with strangers, women tend to have affairs with people they know.

While I agree with the rest of your post, this one makes no sense if you think about it. Men tend to have affairs with strangers. What about the women they are having the affair with? She's with a stranger. And the women that have affairs with men have to be with someone they know? The men are having an affair with the acquaintance, too. I guess if you word it in the way of "men tend to cheat on their significant other with a stranger," that would make more sense, so I'm guessing that's the idea.

I will agree that a wedding ring will get you more flirtation, but will it get you more sex? Maybe, but I have my doubts. But, in my personal experience, I've never let it get go past flirtation, so other's mileage may vary. Will a wedding ring help you find a healthy relationship? No way.

VERY true. It won't be healthy. Like you said, though, women see the wedding ring as a way that there won't be expectations. I've hung out with plenty of girls who were originally hanging out with me as "just friends." But you play your cards right, flirt the right way, instill attraction in their minds, and you literally will hear "I never expected that" next morning while laying in bed. If you really like the chick, it can be a little discouraging that she didn't think of you the way you thought of her, but by that point, it doesn't matter any more. However, those relationships tend to be the most volatile towards the end, because you WILL eventually get blamed for tricking the woman, whether or not you actually were.

Because chicks are any better? Put two girls in the same room for half an hour and they'll be best friends. Put a third one in there and in the next 5 minutes best friends have changed 50 times and theres been a hell of alot of bla bla behind each other's back.

Reminds me of the most common saying when a woman is attracted to you: "I'm not like most other girls, I tend to hang out with guys more than girls." I have heard that from EVERY woman I've been with. And I date all kinds of women.

How exactly will I meet this quote/unquote "girl", if I am not looking for her? My socks never magically slipped onto my feet when I was sitting on the couch.

Exactly. Once I got away from that mentality, women are much more frequent than every few years now. The proof is in the pudding, as they say. If I really wanted a good meal, I wouldn't say the right one would come along, and if by chance it does, it probably won't be my favorite one. But it would be a great way to tide me over until I do find that perfect meal.

And one more thing: you won't find anyone on TB. Gotta get out there and work your magic, man.

Nick

 

[Johnny Crab]

Just find out who you are, and learn to love yourself. The rest will follow.

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EXACTLY how things work correctly.
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