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Getting Girls HELP!!!!!!

#63
Wanna score a hot chick?

Talk to one, starting out like Maki said.

And just make her realize that her existance is totally without consequence to yours.

How do we do that?

"Oh... I just saw my friend, I'll talk to you later."


And they will seek you out before the night is through!


Women can't stand that a guy isnt completely entranced by her. So if they find one that isnt, they will rape him.
 
#65
There is a difference between girls and women. Women like somebody who isn't afraid to be themselves, somebody nice, committed, etc etc..


Most girls like ********.... A girl I knew was going to break up with her BF that would smack her around a bit for a guy that wanted to date her on the side, his Fiance wasn't cutting it. It all seemed well till she met this nice pot head, then that threw a wrench into everything.

And no... im not joking... its just ****ing sad.
 
#68
disenchant said:
Some advice on getting advice:

If you do what other people do, you'll get what they got. In English that means look at the success level of the person you're taking advice from. I've made this mistake before. I've taken advice on money from a guy who also had no money. He said "I've been in your situation before, here's what I did." Well duh, he was still IN my situation, so why the heck would I listen to him? But I did and you know what, I ended up staying in my bad situation.

Sometimes people who have failed will want to tell you why they failed. They're just trying to help. But unless they now have success in that area, DON'T LISTEN TO THEM! They don't know why they failed! I get this a lot from fellow divorcees. They say "oh, this is why my marriage failed..." Well, unless they're now happily married, I'd say they don't know for sure.

Many of the guys on here give really good advice. But some don't. So take a look at who you're getting advice from before you take it.

As for dating, I didn't have a boyfriend until I was 18. I still have trouble with guys. So, we girls have just as much trouble as you. Just find out who you are, and learn to love yourself. The rest will follow.
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This is a great post about advice in general!:cool: I stand by my notion that guys can get obsessed with looks when they are often nothing much to look at themselves. Guys who say women are not into looks so much are only right to a point. Many women love a fine man just as much as a man loves a fine woman. This is even more true when females are young and having fun. When they get ready to settle down, then the plain guy with a great portfolio starts looking cute. In high school, the cheerleader wants the team captain, and that attitude often lasts longer today because young women often get careers and don't need a man's money as much as in the past.

My point is that a lot can be gained by dating girls, even if they are not your ideal. Another fact is that often men are in for a rude awakening when they realize that even those plain girls have standards and are not particularly hard up, i.e., unless a woman looks like sin, she will not have a problem giving up p****.

My main point, however, is that dating girls, any girls, is good because it really helps a young man's confidence. Believe it or not, confidence is attractive. It also can mean that a man will not need a trophy on his arm to feel good about himself, therefore, you will be able to enjoy some great women that may not have popped out if you are only focusing on looks.
 

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