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If she's that freaky about one phone call, imagine what other things she'll be even more freaky about!
RUN AWAY!
RUN AWAY!
I'm not sure who's more psycho: her or you... This sounds like a simple misunderstanding, but you run to this forum & call her names behind her back... Grow Up...
I'd get the phone records, highlight it, and say, "You're a lying bitch, here's the proof, we're THROUGH."
There's no way in Hades I'd put up with that stupid drama. There are better women with more stable psyche's than her, and you should tell her exactly that.
There's no way in Hades I'd put up with that stupid drama. There are better women with more stable psyche's than her, and you should tell her exactly that.
Again, if THIS pisses you off... you have no business being in a relationship... wait until something SEVERE occurs...
+11111111111. What the hell are you doing dude? Dump her and move on. Why bother putting all this effort into placating her? Read the Man Laws. I think the last one states.
DON'T BE DUMB.
From a woman's POV...
If my husband got home at 4:30 a.m., I'd not be thrilled.
Did she require you to prove you called, or did she just say, "Well, your calls never showed up on the phone"? There's a big difference. Was she simply irritated that she did not hear from you, or did she rant and rave and get ugly? Big difference. She can be irritated without being called "psycho".
If my man said he called me, but I don't remember a call, and I can't find him on the caller ID, and he was out all night, I'd be asking some questions, too. I wouldn't be real, real mad, but I'd be irritated with him, yeah.
Cherie
If my husband got home at 4:30 a.m., I'd not be thrilled.
Did she require you to prove you called, or did she just say, "Well, your calls never showed up on the phone"? There's a big difference. Was she simply irritated that she did not hear from you, or did she rant and rave and get ugly? Big difference. She can be irritated without being called "psycho".
If my man said he called me, but I don't remember a call, and I can't find him on the caller ID, and he was out all night, I'd be asking some questions, too. I wouldn't be real, real mad, but I'd be irritated with him, yeah.
Cherie
They're just dating...if they were married, I could see the cause for concern, but I don't understand this mentality where a girlfriend has to be appraised of her boyfriend's location 24/7.
I'm right there with McHack on this one. You guys really know how to blow things out of proportion.
This GF of yours is a "PSY-CHO" because she does not remember a conversation at 4:30 in the morning?
The rest of you think he should dump her and run because she doesn't trust or believe him, and this is now a relationship breaking trust issue?
Wow....
-Mike
This GF of yours is a "PSY-CHO" because she does not remember a conversation at 4:30 in the morning?
The rest of you think he should dump her and run because she doesn't trust or believe him, and this is now a relationship breaking trust issue?
Wow....
-Mike
Depends on how serious the relationship is, really.
Again, if she's just irritated, I don't think that's anything to break up over. If she's enraged, then yes, he should run away, run away, its a killer rabbit.
Cherie
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Imagine spending the rest of your life putting up with that kind of behavior everyday. Then when you're finished with that, dump her before you end up spending the rest of your life putting up with that kind of behavior everyday.
I have to be the voice of balance here. This does not sound psycho to me. I had girlfriends in my single days where I had to hide the knives just in case the voices told her to do impromptu surgery on me in my sleep.
I had one who sewed the sheets into a big pouch around me while I was asleep and then went and got a broomstick to beat on me with. Fortunately she wasn't very strong so I wasn't badly hurt, just freaked out going from totally asleep to being hit with a stick. She ran away when I managed to get loose.
One got into a screaming argument with a chair. Based on her side of the yelling match, I suspect the chair was making some good cogent points. I wish I knew what she thought it was saying.
One burned more than half of all my clothes while I was at work.
One very recent-at-the-time ex-girlfriend seduced my then-current-girlfriend. They ended up becoming a very solid couple and are in fact, still together nearly twenty years later. But I have to say, few things make you doubt yourself quite so badly as "What did I do that was so wrong that they gave up on guys entirely?"
I think you should change the title of the thread to "Girlfriend is grumpy in the morning."
I had one who sewed the sheets into a big pouch around me while I was asleep and then went and got a broomstick to beat on me with. Fortunately she wasn't very strong so I wasn't badly hurt, just freaked out going from totally asleep to being hit with a stick. She ran away when I managed to get loose.
One got into a screaming argument with a chair. Based on her side of the yelling match, I suspect the chair was making some good cogent points. I wish I knew what she thought it was saying.
One burned more than half of all my clothes while I was at work.
One very recent-at-the-time ex-girlfriend seduced my then-current-girlfriend. They ended up becoming a very solid couple and are in fact, still together nearly twenty years later. But I have to say, few things make you doubt yourself quite so badly as "What did I do that was so wrong that they gave up on guys entirely?"
I think you should change the title of the thread to "Girlfriend is grumpy in the morning."
Seems like someone got addicted psycho sex. Best sex around, but as you're pointing out, it always comes with a price. :scowl:
Honesty, is such a lonely word,
Everyone is so untrue.
Honesty, is hardly ever heard,
and mostly what I need from yooooouuuuu.
If ya ain't got trust, you ain't got nuthin' at all, but it's your call - if you like drama and spending more time explaning yourself or demanding her to explain herself, stick with this "relationship".
Hey, what the hell? Some people live for this sort of drama in their relationships... Not me... but who knows? Maybe this dude gets a rush outta being 50% pissed, 50% "in love"...
Everyone is so untrue.
Honesty, is hardly ever heard,
and mostly what I need from yooooouuuuu.
If ya ain't got trust, you ain't got nuthin' at all, but it's your call - if you like drama and spending more time explaning yourself or demanding her to explain herself, stick with this "relationship".
Hey, what the hell? Some people live for this sort of drama in their relationships... Not me... but who knows? Maybe this dude gets a rush outta being 50% pissed, 50% "in love"...
