Yep...$5000.00 for the band plus they would reimburse our gas, hotel and food expenses.
Wow. I'd be P.O.'d too. Only thing that could conceivably justify the drummer's attitude is if you didn't have a contract with deposit in place. Then he may have had a legitimate business concern and especially if he's a veteran and got burned on something like this before. But if everything was documented, then he was lame and just flat-out in the wrong and I would agree with others here... hire another drummer and do the gig anyway, if you haven't already burned your bridges on it.