When it rains it pours. Before last month I was simply posting Youtube videos of me playing bass and now I'm in 2 possible 3 bands and a once a week jam session with a guitar player. I'm glad I found this thread because I need to talk this out and feedback is appreciated if you have any.
The first band is a Rhythm and Blues/Soul band with 1 or 2 Top 40 tunes thrown in. I like it. It's fun. Plus the lead singer is a good friend. We have more gigs lined up for June and July.
The second band is classic rock. We rehearsed at a studio last week and clicked as if it was meant to be. Players include a guitarist/singer/band leader, keyboardist, me on bass, and a drummer. Band leader is looking for 1 or 2 singers to complete the band. Her original singer, whom I haven't met, she says is shaky and wants to do old school Motown, which is problematic because everyone else wants to do straight up classic rock, and that is why the band leader is looking for new vocalist. We're covering Pink Floyd, Led Zeppelin, GnR, Beatles, etc., which is the stuff I really enjoy playing.
The 3rd band, which I actually auditioned for on Monday is straight up Top 40. I've never played Top 40 before and don't listen to it, but the band members are straight up professionals in that the guy that arranges the songs is a master at it, and they've all done studio work with recording artist (I was in the right place at the right time to meet this group). I had one day to practice (which they were aware of) so I focused on an original intro one of the leaders arranged. It was so complicated that I had to transcribe it. I did okay playing that one at the rehearsal, but had problems with the other songs because I simply never heard them before.
The weekly jam is my favorite because we're creating original material and it's Metallica-esque. The other thing about this one is that the guitar player is also African-American, and take my word for it, it's very hard to find Black people that like rock music like we do. And when we discovered that we both like hard rock and that I play bass and he plays guitar we were both like "Lets Start A Band!"
Question - How did those of you that are old hats at this learn to play songs that you may not particularly care for? I'm finding some of the songs in band #3 fun (Shania Twain, Carrie Underwood, Walk The Moon), but I'm struggling with some Bryan Adams (not that it's hard to learn, I just don't like Bryan Adams), and I'm dreading learning You're The one That I Want from the Grease soundtrack (I'm taking a break now because it's next on the list of songs for me to learn and I don't want to play that song on my bass. My neighbors might hear it and think I've lost my mind); and Oh What A Night by the Four Seasons???? I can't tell you how much I hate that song, but I want to be in this band because I can learn a lot from the other players.
At any rate, I'm happy all of this is happening. I'm practicing all the time now, which is taking time away from my favorite pastimes, which were hanging out on the Talk Bass forum and posting YouTube videos.