Me.
In 15 years I’ve probably played as many as 10 gigs; I’ve been playing for 43 years.
The last band I was in (for 8 years) we gigged 4 times, but then we never looked for gigs. We practiced, wrote and recorded in our studio without really caring to play out.
I still don’t care to do gigs bc by far most popular type of gigs that were available - bars.
People at bars are there to drink, dance and get lucky to as many rhythmic decibels as possible. Period. they will not care what they drink (as long as it’s alcoholic) and will not care what they dance to (as long as it’s as loud af), and, let’s face it - they may not care come last call who they get lucky with, either.
That’s not for me.
I play bass for myself and if anyone listens, cool, if not, they are not missed bc anyone else’s enjoyment of what i happen to do is purely incidental to me and if less than zero importance.
I don’t care or complain about gigs (bar gigs esp), or dance gigs (the music i play is the least dance-friendly stuff available) and i love being able to play what i want without worrying if it’s gonna get butts out of the seats and sell beer.
I love to practice, improve and play increasingly technically challenging music, which no one at a “gig” wants to hear anyway. As an example, i am learning by ear Liquid Tension Experiment’s “When the Water Breaks,” a 17 minute long epic that would be hysterical if played before a Friday night bar crowd (it might be worth it to try that sometime.) At the few gigs my last band did it was funny enough watching ppl try to dance to Dream Theater’s Metropolis into Dance Of Eternity.
Im not going to spend 2 months learning a song (or more, as a band Dance of Eternity took 2 years of steady weekly practice for us to get it perfect) so i can hopefully motivate drunks to get drunker.
if my personal goals were different who knows, i might have thrown down Mustang Sally with the last callers on weekends, but i have my own goals and it’s my call.