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How to get a girlfriend

What are your credentials to be giving out said advice, Mr OP?

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Depends on the girl you're trying to get, cause each one will be looking for something different.

Too much confidence in a guy is a definite turn off for me, it just makes them look like they've got their own head up their backside. Have confidence just don't get too smart but even a guy who seems nervous is cute and can seem more open for talking to (depends on situation).

As for looks, whether they look clean cut and well groomed or have the rough look it's up to them. I'm quite partial to the roughed up look but a guy who looks after their appearance is nice too...as long as they are clean and smell good it's all good.

For personality I do agree with the 'be yourself' no use lying or trying to be someone you're not because it'll come out in the end.

Basically each to their own, whatever look a guy has there's bound to be a girl out their who likes that guy for who he is regardless of shape, size, rough or well groomed, confident or nervous.
 
^^ That's what I looked like. That's how you shouldn't look lol. I changed my look again and I look decent now.

I disagree, you could probably pick up chicks with that look if you were to sit in Starbucks all day typing your "latest screenplay" on your MacBook Pro. Be sure you're actually wearing the "Bitches don't know bout my New Look" shirt though; hipsters appreciate that sort of irony :p.
 
serious tho, to take this list of ideas seriously is to imply that all women are the same...a constant. Anyone who has ever gotten past second base knows this is not the case, which is why I sumbit that the OP is, in fact, a virgin.

I mean, isn't he the dudester that posted pics of him posing with his blue Ibeenhad bass a few years back? The "Atlas" pose with it behind his back? For some reason that sticks in my head, and to that I say Ell Oh Ell! That'll get you buckets of poon.

kiddin man.