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I don't think I can match their dedication

I mean these people had the same feelings after hearing the EP. I seem to be the only one who doesn't feel this project has some sort of destiny attached to it.

I think what's really keeping me in it is I've worked with the frontman for 4 years and watched several projects fizzle out. He's a genuinely good guy and a talented vocalist/songwriter/guitarist. I'm pretty sure me leaving would end our friendship.

If he was a true friend, he would understand that your goals are different than those of the group. Perhaps you could assist them in finding a replacement bass player.
 
I gotta say, the music is way better than I expected.

I guess it's a bit "dated" as some have said, but the quality is pretty ridiculous overall, and I think that gives it the potential to "transcend" the genre if you guys have a good live show.

I'm not sure what the other guys are aiming for in your band goal wise, I'd say that "rock stardom" is probably way too dependent on things you can't control, but general success is well within your capability.

You definitely have huge potential to at least make a go of it, I would be patient, let them be excited about it, and see where it goes.

The overall tone of the recordings is great, what equipment did you guys use to record?

I'm unsure of the exact gear it was recorded on, was done in a local studio.

Funny thing is I used my $200 Squier Jaguar.

I appreciate all the comments, just gonna hang along for the ride until it either comes to fruition or becomes unsustainable.
 
While I dont think you should have your head in the clouds after one show, I also don't think you shouldn't set your goals high. Where would music be if everyone gave up because they didn't think there was a small chance. I have been in a similar situation as you before. I was in a band where all they were concerned about was making it and playing music came first at times. but their were times where they were more focused on selling themselves. needless to say the band later broke up. As of now I am in a band that plays out 7-10 times a month and has headlined 80% of our shows. Not because we are superior musicians but because we are personable, lively, energetic, and fun. We are the first to be called for gigs because we show up first and leave last. We think there is a chance we could go somewhere but who doesnt. That doesn't mean we put all our eggs in one basket though. All of us hold day jobs and go to college as well.
 
I listened to the music and its pretty good but not anything catchy or new. In my area we have 4-5 bands that have a little national buzz,done tours and get large local/regional crowds and all of them still work a job, a couple work at the local GC so it's the old seen this before.
I think your bandmates to react like this after one show makes them have rockstar eyes and is foolish.

I'm not saying to try but be weary. I was in an originals band that the first year or two we got buzz and great reaction. after 4 years it faded.