Dont ever volunteer to coach a team sport, because lots of other guys rely on that as a career. Dont ever mow your neighbors lawn as a favor, because the landscaping company relies on that. Dont help your buddy install a car stereo, because the car audio shop has to pay their mortgages. Help out when someones computer crashes? No way, bring it to a tech who will charge you full price.
Apply the logic equally to areas that dont hit so close to home and you'll see the folly. Or not.
I tutor for several HS subjects. I am friends with many other tutors. A few of them rely heavily on this extra income. I would be appalled if any of them ever chastised of similarly criticized someone who was offering a student free help.
The bottom line is people like a bargain, but they pay for quality when they see the need. If the club gets free or bargain bands, and the club still fills up and customers like it and pay, then they clearly dont value the increased abilities & professionalism (and apparantly ego) as much as said pro's do. In essence, you are being told you arent worth the extra cost by the market.
IF, however, the club owners see a decline in buis due to lousy (free) help, which over time I'd wager is true as well depending upon the venue, then THEY will see the value of hiring a pro.
Its about money for the clubs, so the market decides in the end.
I read 4 or 5 pages of this thread and was frankly pretty disappointed to read much of what I did.
I think SMASH nailed it 10 or so pages ago.
Thing is, there is a difference, for me, between volunteering or helping a neighbor, and someone else making money off me.
I play benefits. We play benefits for local people, in my community, whose need is tangible, and when they are helped, the result is also tangible. For instance, we played a benefit for a bassist friend, so that he could get a new prosthetic leg (he lost his to diabetes). And for the family of a murdered fan. And for a local biker who died in an accident, so his wife could cover burial expenses.
I play friends' parties as a favor, so long as the band supports it. We do this sort of thing for one another a lot. I also go play with hobbyist friends, when their bassist can't show up for their house jams. Its fun.
And I feed my neighbor's cats for free when she's on vacation.
But when I play a bar, they are making money from me, and they should pay me, just as they pay the waitress and the barkeep. Because playing a bar gig or a party-for-hire isn't doing someone a favor. It is business. If they don't like us, they can hire someone else, and pay *them*.
Cherie
