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I'm getting married.
- Thread starter dharma
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soulgeezer
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- Jan 29, 2007
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Congratulations!
My wife and I are approaching our 10th anniversary next month.
Finding "the one" when it comes to a spouse is infinitely more satisfying than finding "the one" when it comes to bass gear.
My wife and I are approaching our 10th anniversary next month.
Finding "the one" when it comes to a spouse is infinitely more satisfying than finding "the one" when it comes to bass gear.
Congrats to you and the lucky gal!!!!!
It takes a special kind of woman to marry a bassist, poise, brains, stamina, beauty, a touch of dementia j/k
It takes a special kind of woman to marry a bassist, poise, brains, stamina, beauty, a touch of dementia j/k
What's the hurry? You're only 24. I know I did a lot of growing between 24 and 30 when I got married.
Do you ever listen to Tom Leykis?
Do you ever listen to Tom Leykis?
Mark Wilson
Supporting Member
Aw comon Maki! Be happy for him!
I can't wait to get married haha.
Maki, wanna get married? haha
EDIT: Don't...evenn..answer. I don't know. I'm out of it.
I can't wait to get married haha.
Maki, wanna get married?
hahaEDIT: Don't...evenn..answer. I don't know. I'm out of it.
Aw comon Maki! Be happy for him!
I can't wait to get married haha.
Maki, wanna get married?
No
Seriously though... I'm just looking out for him. Twenty four is awfully young IMO. It's really easy to get all giddy and wrapped up in the moment and then 6 years later he's posting in the I just got divorced thread. Odds are against the success of this marriage.
But if there's not stopping the fool... The congrats dude. Just read and know the man laws. They'll help you.
Mark Wilson
Supporting Member
We don't need Maki... he will just stink the place up!
I only want him in there if he has more stories from his past haha those were very entertaining.
Congratulations though dharma, good luck!
I only want him in there if he has more stories from his past haha those were very entertaining.
Congratulations though dharma, good luck!
You mad impetuous fool!!!!
Just kidding! Go for it, and I hope you live happily ever after. Here's to your 51st anniversary (my dad says the first 50 years are the hardest, after that it's smooth sailing. My folks have been married 54 years and counting. It can be done!).
Just kidding! Go for it, and I hope you live happily ever after. Here's to your 51st anniversary (my dad says the first 50 years are the hardest, after that it's smooth sailing. My folks have been married 54 years and counting. It can be done!).
No
Seriously though... I'm just looking out for him. Twenty four is awfully young IMO. It's really easy to get all giddy and wrapped up in the moment and then 6 years later he's posting in the I just got divorced thread. Odds are against the success of this marriage.
But if there's not stopping the fool... The congrats dude. Just read and know the man laws. They'll help you.
Age doesn't matter as long as the maturity is there. I was 20 when I married and 17 years later, it's still going strong.
It's rare that I turn out to be the Brucey of the thread, but you're an anomoly my friend.
I'm just saying it's a big step... Marriage is hard. I personally beleive that a person needs to live that point in their life when their out of school, making good money, and living as an adult for a few years before jumping in. Not saying break up with your chick, just wait a few years. Live together when you're making good money etc. This is an important part of a person's development... as important as adolescence IMO. Whatever, just be careful...
I'm happy for you don't get me wrong, this part of your life is fun... Planning for your wedding having stupid arguments over decorations and meals and crap... It's exciting.
Ah whatever, a fool is love cannot be told. Go nuts dude. Have fun. I wish you both the best. Congrats.
Your welcome kid. Good luck... I'm laughing because even though I was older when I finally broke down and did it, I still wasn't prepared for the ride. I've been married for 5 years. Best of luck, seriously, I hope you caught where I was coming from.
It's rare that I turn out to be the Brucey of the thread, but you're an anomoly my friend.
I'm just saying it's a big step... Marriage is hard. I personally beleive that a person needs to live that point in their life when their out of school, making good money, and living as an adult for a few years before jumping in. Not saying break up with your chick, just wait a few years. Live together when you're making good money etc. This is an important part of a person's development... as important as adolescence IMO. Whatever, just be careful...
I'm happy for you don't get me wrong, this part of your life is fun... Planning for your wedding having stupid arguments over decorations and meals and crap... It's exciting.
Ah whatever, a fool is love cannot be told. Go nuts dude. Have fun. I wish you both the best. Congrats.
You make a very valid point. If I had the chance to do it all over again, it would be with the same woman but I would do it a few years down the road. My advice would be to get yourself financially established if you haven't already. Then make all of your dreams come true. It's a rough road but if you two are really in love, it makes handling that road a bit easier. Never stop working at your marriage and never go to bed angry.
Good luck!
+1 on the going to bed angry... Also never reject a hug that goes for both of you.
