This is another area of tonal theory where there is a lot of confusion, most of which is due to the fact that we cling to baroque tonal theory as though it is the law of all things sonic. Here is my interpretation of what a scale and a mode is though, for what it is worth. Some of you might not agree but just consider that this synopsis is the result of careful consideration on the topic, not just some verbatum theoretical concept. Also let me say that I reguard the term 'diatonic' as an archaic and innacurate nomenclature that professes to give hierarchy to a particular scale because some religious zealots thought it sounded holy.
A scale is a group of notes that are intervalically related to each other. A scale can be any group of notes that have such a function. A scale can modulate from one register to another (like a raga for example) and any mode of any scale can be enharmonic to a scale autonomous to itself.
A mode is the way that each degree of a scale interprets the hierarchy of the intervalic relationships of that scale.
Let's take an example at this point. Consider the group of intervals that we associate with the term 'Lydian'. Is this a scale, or a mode? Most people would argue that it is a mode of the major scale. I, personally, would disagree. Apart from the fact that the term 'Lydian' is only a name we give to a group of intervals that ascend in order as tone, tone, tone, semitone, tone, tone, semitone, it also makes the assumption that this group of intervals has no autonomy unless it is as a function of the major scale. While this is true to some extent it is no more so than it is for the other remaining modulations of that group of intervals. That is to say that what we call the 'Lydian mode' is no more a mode of the Major scale than it is a mode of the Dorian scale.
So in having said that I would say that Lydian is a name for a scale that is enharmonic to a mode of the Major scale. That is if we were to use the major scale as a point of reference. That mode would best be described as that 4th degree of the Ionian or Major scale's intervalic interpretation of its parent scale. Why is all this important you might ask? In my opinion making these distinctions is paramount in going beyond the limitations that are constantly imposed by 'diatonic' tonal theory. How can you use this knowledge in bluegrass? The same way you use it in any other music, I guess, try to understand it and use it when practical.