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[DEL]My works Steady as she goes. 7:30 - 4:30, M-F. It is a luxury I do not take for granted.[/DEL]
Well it was an ego crusher and pretty well sucked but it really did make my "see the light" and my relationship with my new lovely gal is much much better for it.
It is simply this. No matter how much you love someone, and no matter how much you try, you cannot change their feelings about you. If they have an ulterior motive that has zero to do with your feelings and your more than obvious devotion, you are simply along for the ride. If you are lucky enough, and strong enough to walk away, you will have made an important discovery. Growing up that much at once emotionally was a very hard thing to do.
Ever read "Dracula"?