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Is A Tip Jar At A Gig OK? - With Poll

Is A Tip Jar At A Gig OK?

  • It's always OK.

    Votes: 165 51.4%
  • It's OK as long as the band/artist is NOT being paid.

    Votes: 52 16.2%
  • It's OK if the band/artist IS being paid, as long as there is no cover charge.

    Votes: 58 18.1%
  • It's never OK.

    Votes: 24 7.5%
  • It's OK, but only if it can be filled with carrots.

    Votes: 22 6.9%

  • Total voters
    321
A musician buddy of mine posted this question on FB. I found a related discussion in this forum but thought a poll would be nice. This applies to cover bands and bands/artists playing originals. Be sure to vote!

Collecting dead president portraits is a great way to increase revenue. There are some situations where you don’t announce it, but there is nothing inherently wrong with it.
 
I did not vote.
Because,
It’s OK if the venue or person/organization
days it’s OK.

At a classy function, where the band is paid well, its a no no.
I’ve played many private functions where there was no tip jar for the bartenders.
 
The manager looked at the tips the same way he looks at tips for wait staff. Tips, in most states, can be applied as a credit to make up the difference between a very low tipped minimum wage and the state’s (or federal) minimum wage. They try to spread that around the bar, back crew, etc so that in the end he just pays $2.50 / hour for labor and the staff take home little more than minimum wage. So the band did get the tips, but they were applied as a credit towards the band’s fee that night.
Which is why I always tip my waitron in cash. If they put it in the pool that's on them, but I want them to have that option.
 
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ANY gig. I don't care if Nelson Rockefeller is in the audience in a tux. Get yourself one of those old fashioned clear mayonnaise gallon jars. Soak it until the label comes off, or you might have to buy one on eBay. Get one of the girlfriends design a sign to tape to the jar. Make sure TIPS is in large letters.

Before you put the jar out center stage, put a dollar in the jar. It's odd but that helps start the tipping.
 
IMHO, the only time it would be inappropriate would be for a Wedding or Corporate gig.
I've actually had people come up and ask why there was no jar. Once even had someone put one on stage for us.

This.

Earlier this year, a drunk woman danced up to the stage and tucked a 20 in the waistband of our 64 year old guitarist. Nothing wrong with tips.
 
A musician buddy of mine posted this question on FB. I found a related discussion in this forum but thought a poll would be nice. This applies to cover bands and bands/artists playing originals. Be sure to vote!

Our band does a number of breast cancer benefits. We always have a tip jar but if we are playing local we donate the entire amount. If we are playing out of state then usually the member coming the farthest is offered the jar. You have to understand that one member lives in Alabama one in SC and two in Florida. I know you question our quality of show but we were together for many years and still are requested to do these shows for a really great cause. Just an FYI no member has ever taken the money. It always is donated back. It’s what we do to pay back for our talent!
 
My tip jar is always to the side, and never in front of me. If no one sees it, the bar sometimes puts one in a more obvious place without asking me. Around here, it is quite acceptable and expected. I only started using one because people would ask me where my tip jar was. Perhaps the answer is somewhat a regional thing?

A $2 or $3 tip is more common than a $1 tip. A few will usually be a $5 bill. $20s are more common than $10s. Then there are the mysteriously and secretly deposited $100 bills which are rare. I appreciate each and every one of them. Nice to be appreciated also.

My real answer would simply be, do whatever you want. That's what I'm gonna do.
 
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Musicians are gravely underpaid compared to literally everyone in the building, no matter where they perform. A tip jar is always okay as long as you do not keep mentioning it and it won't be stolen.

Also, what's with all the "as long as it is okay with the venue" posts? Why suck venue's ducks more, when they'll take all the drink money, most of the door and then pay the soundman, but not you?
 
Another question is passing the tip jar. Sometimes someone from the crowd will pass it. A band member's wife did it last Sunday when we scored big.
Look in the foreground at the silhouette of a guitar, that is our tip jar.
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