I'd like to support mom and pop shops, but when they are charging close to list price and your having to pay almost double for everything it becomes difficult. Tell you the truth I've had as many issues with bad customer service and overbearing sales guys at small shops as I have at big ones.
I agree with this completely. I have had terrific experiences with professional, well-kept mom and pop businesses which absolutely gave me faith in music retailers. I have also had completely awful experiences with independently owned and operated guitar stores that left such a bad taste in my mouth I don't want to even consider them again. It's impossible to make a blanket statement about "mom and pops" because they are as different from one to another as the individuals who own and work at them. I don't want to lump the good in with the bad and vice versa.
Ultimately, though, mom and pops are usually bad places to go if you want a good deal on new merchandise. They might give you a "pawn shop" style discount on great used stuff but if you want something brand new, they'll charge you almost list price. Amazing. I'm aware it's out of their hands and manufacturers give steep discounts to bulk purchasers but I do not have a lot of money so when it comes time to spend either $40 or $15 dollars on the exact same set of strings, I literally don't have an option. This occurs to me every time the "support your local shops" discussion comes up. Believe me, I want to. In theory, local shops are the lifeblood of a retail market that feels healthy and secure. In reality, though, they are fallible and human and often not even a good bargain.
By the way, about my experience at GC yesterday... my new bass is in and they got me all set up as efficiently and with as much friendly customer service as I could ask for.