Well, in my case I think it's more that I have changed than band culture. I spent many years being just a mercenary, that is, being a working musician no matter what the music or who called. It was all about the money and where to make the most. I did ok at it, playing two or three gigs a month, sometimes a month with nothing, but generally 30-40 gigs a year (over 80 in 2002 when I was with a band that had a couple of hits on beach radio). But, a couple of years ago I decided it was time to enjoy what I play more. Too much time wasted on stuff I don't like. Being 60 at the time had an effect, too. So, I began to play in bands that were more to my liking music-wise. Of course, the pay was cut in half, and even less usually. And these bands haven't lasted as long. had a really nice classic rock thing going for awhile, but one guitar player dropped the ball, and it died. I've picked up a variety thing since the last year, but it's not all I want. But, in the last month I got a call for a power trio doing classic rock, and it sounds like a treat. So, I'll be throwing it in with the variety band's schedule, with high hopes it will do well. The variety band doesn't do too much classic rock, but is better than some other bands from the past, songlist-wise, so it's still a fun gig. Of course, any band has to also play some stuff here and there that isn't my favorite tunes, but that's just par for the course. Can't have it all my way. But, the point is, nowadays, in my last years I am playing for satisfaction. If I'm not getting into it, it ain't worth the time. I also don't have any more time for situations where I can't hear myself. It's been good lately, and so much more fun. I get two or three gigs a month. Not bad, but not much dough, of course. Oh well, still fun, though.
Life is too short to not be enjoying playing.