I'm in a perfect spot with the band I'm in. We play a couple times a month. We do weddings, festivals (street dances), and a few bar gigs so people know who we are. (Holidays are good times to play bars. Labor day, Fourth of July etc.) We have four members who have families and full time jobs so it is the perfect balance for us to get out and play, get good pay, and still have some weekends off to spend with our spouses and children (and grand children for a couple of us.)
Next month is the busiest one of the summer for us. We have three festivals, a wedding and one tiki bar gig. Everyone will put a grand(+) in their pocket, then we get a few weeks off to do whatever we want to do. We'll all have some extra money to do fun stuff with the families.
We also never have "practices." We all learn our parts at home and then we'll get together and have a rehersal. Sometimes we will soundcheck with a new song and it goes on the list. We also practice our harmonies before shows and sometimes during breaks.
Nothing is ever perfect. People don't always get married when you want them to, but I think we have a great balance playing vs. time off.
It can be really hard to find three to five people who want the same thing. I feel blessed that I have that. It's tough out there. The economy is still poor and it's hard on new bands. I empathize with everyone of you that does not have their perfect situation.
TLDNR; I would not change a thing.
Next month is the busiest one of the summer for us. We have three festivals, a wedding and one tiki bar gig. Everyone will put a grand(+) in their pocket, then we get a few weeks off to do whatever we want to do. We'll all have some extra money to do fun stuff with the families.
We also never have "practices." We all learn our parts at home and then we'll get together and have a rehersal. Sometimes we will soundcheck with a new song and it goes on the list. We also practice our harmonies before shows and sometimes during breaks.
Nothing is ever perfect. People don't always get married when you want them to, but I think we have a great balance playing vs. time off.
It can be really hard to find three to five people who want the same thing. I feel blessed that I have that. It's tough out there. The economy is still poor and it's hard on new bands. I empathize with everyone of you that does not have their perfect situation.
TLDNR; I would not change a thing.

