Then maybe you haven't found a Neo cabinet that suits your personal taste. There are a wide variety of voicings available from today's neo equipped cabinets, you might give some more a listen or just be happy with what you currently have.
Agreed. When Neo came out, I avoided it like the plague, until a friend at Ernie ball recommended a rig, which I then bought.
It sounded so good that I soon forgot just how different that it was compared to the norm. It was one of the first class d neo setups.
I also became a 10" snob as their popularity grew with the "flea age", so I'd never stoop to 12's either...
10 years later, my favorite cab of the eight that I have is a mesa 412, and I couldn't even tell you what speakers are in it. The Ampeg 810 has the greatest following of all, and yet it's not for me.
Old cabs were built to last, but little was dedicated toward tuning and design, so I think it was largely speaker driven, but as @agedhorse said, now, there are sooooo many flavors... four different 410's can sound completely different. I doubt that was so evident 20 years ago.
I haven't even heard of the brands that some tbers talk about and swear by, but I do know that they're not all created equal. I've been living large, in love with my sound and cabs for the last decade... but now my collection of cabs has bought me a new kind of happiness and excitement.
No matter what bass or head I buy now, I know that I'll have weeks of experimenting ahead as I try all of the different cabs and configurations.
And while I do own a Mesa PH412, Ampeg Heritage 810, SVT212... I also own 4 neo's that I'll never part with. Hard to try them all now with the internet shopping, but necessary because they're not all equal.