I got to play with a really, really good guitar player today and after a few tunes he asked me how I learn songs. So I told him I'll get a lead sheet and walk basslines, play the melody, move it around the keys, play it on piano, etc.
So he told me that's all well and good, but that my sense of harmony sounded "blocky". Meaning, I tend to play the same turnarounds/chord progressions every chorus.
I asked him how to fix this and he told me he did it by giving away all his fakebooks, then whenever he was at a jam session where he didn't know a tune, trying to hear his way through it.
How do you do this??!! It may seem like a silly question, but I feel like I'm missing something. Its really frustrating when other musicians say, "oh, you'll hear it" because I usually end up being asked to leave shortly after!
A few examples from the last week or two:
When "bolivia" and "dolphin dance" got called at a session, and I was told "you'll hear 'em man". I did my best to play what I remembered from the recordings and listen to the piano player, but when I checked out the changes later on, they weren't anything close to what I thought I heard. Another time, a sax player called "giant steps" (which I know) and took 6 choruses, except he took each chorus up a whole step until he got to the original key. I would not have known if the piano player hadn't told me afterwards (he was a nice guy, the sax player was not).
I've proved to myself I can memorize plenty of music from a book, but I still don't have a good sense of harmony. Does it just kind of happen after a while?
So he told me that's all well and good, but that my sense of harmony sounded "blocky". Meaning, I tend to play the same turnarounds/chord progressions every chorus.
I asked him how to fix this and he told me he did it by giving away all his fakebooks, then whenever he was at a jam session where he didn't know a tune, trying to hear his way through it.
How do you do this??!! It may seem like a silly question, but I feel like I'm missing something. Its really frustrating when other musicians say, "oh, you'll hear it" because I usually end up being asked to leave shortly after!
A few examples from the last week or two:
When "bolivia" and "dolphin dance" got called at a session, and I was told "you'll hear 'em man". I did my best to play what I remembered from the recordings and listen to the piano player, but when I checked out the changes later on, they weren't anything close to what I thought I heard. Another time, a sax player called "giant steps" (which I know) and took 6 choruses, except he took each chorus up a whole step until he got to the original key. I would not have known if the piano player hadn't told me afterwards (he was a nice guy, the sax player was not).
I've proved to myself I can memorize plenty of music from a book, but I still don't have a good sense of harmony. Does it just kind of happen after a while?