I am willing to put on such an entertaining show that it will sell drinks. I have accepted that if I want to play my music in a bar, that is what I am stuck with.
I will NEVER pitch alcohol to people. Alcohol is poison, and most people who come to bars drink far too much of it. Every year, thousands of people are killed in drunk-driving fatalities; thousands more destroy their organs; and millions destroy their lives. I have lost a lot of people I care about due to liquor. And I only play in bars because we are forced to.
I know that will give plenty of you reason to criticize me, and please, FEEL FREE. I don't mind at all. I am unhappy that the reason I am playing music is to sell alcohol. I wish it was just to entertain people. But you have to draw the line somewhere, and I assure you, I will go to my grave without encouraging anyone to take a drink, or do a shot, or whatever.
There are opportunities for you doing weddings, casino gigs, birthday parties, fairs, festivals, fundraising, events, and that sort of thing.
I see and appreciate your perspective. I would probably pitch alcohol if it meant bringing home an extra $50 that night. For you to choose not do so, there are many events listed such as above where your goal actually is to entertain the audience (most of the time at least).