I would appreciate some feedback about what/if I can do anything to get this guy to honor his commitment. I searched the forums and read pretty much everything posted and realized that I am not the only one in this situation.
Here is my short/long story: I came across Jim Reed pickups and have to confess I fell in love with his RJ Neo pickups sound. So I talked to him and ordered a set of dual coils for my six stringer. Payed him what he asked, $257 for the set, back in April 28 /16. He told me:
" Cool as soon as i revive it ill ship out your set of pickups". Then the waiting game started, first he told me that he's grandma died, then nothing at all for a long time. And somehow I managed to get him back on line by buying a set of new RJ Neo on ebay. Then the delivery time passes with nothing at hand other than a non-functional tracking number. First he blamed the USPS only to admit finally that the package was just sitting on a shelve somewhere in the shop. When I finally asked Ebay to step in, I was called (on ebay message), c@&K suc&@r, m f*&%er etc. When I finally got the package, it was the wrong pickups, 5 strings split coils instead of 6 strings dual coils. Got back to him, he said was a mistake and that my pickups were sitting there. Afraid of losing even those wrong pickups, I stupidly fell for paying again for them to which he promised he will ship as soon as he receives the payment. That was June 17...
Then, between all sort of excuses and long silence from him here we are in Sept; same non-working tracking number, blaming USPS, periods of completely ignoring my calls etc... and again another quite colorful language/verbal abuse from him, and few other pearls that honestly I have a hard time believing that anyone in the right mind would use while replying to an ebay open case?? Anyhow, you get the picture.
So I am asking you TB'ers, does anybody have some advise for me on how I can finish this peacefully? There must be some of you with past experiences that might help.
It's really hard for me to understand that somebody that creates something, a product with such a beautiful sound can be so painfully gross and such a pathetic liar. I have read some of you saying that he's actually a nice guy etc which I would really like to believe, but how can I reconcile with the side I see or was revealed to me? How can I open that door and trigger that nice side in him? I just feel that I would like to end this in a peaceful and decent way. Also, I would hope that by reading this some unsuspecting guys (like me) would repeat same mistake I did with this guy no-matter how appealing the sound of his pickups might be.
Any help, ideas, advice etc would be soooo welcome.
Thanks
Julian
Here is my short/long story: I came across Jim Reed pickups and have to confess I fell in love with his RJ Neo pickups sound. So I talked to him and ordered a set of dual coils for my six stringer. Payed him what he asked, $257 for the set, back in April 28 /16. He told me:
" Cool as soon as i revive it ill ship out your set of pickups". Then the waiting game started, first he told me that he's grandma died, then nothing at all for a long time. And somehow I managed to get him back on line by buying a set of new RJ Neo on ebay. Then the delivery time passes with nothing at hand other than a non-functional tracking number. First he blamed the USPS only to admit finally that the package was just sitting on a shelve somewhere in the shop. When I finally asked Ebay to step in, I was called (on ebay message), c@&K suc&@r, m f*&%er etc. When I finally got the package, it was the wrong pickups, 5 strings split coils instead of 6 strings dual coils. Got back to him, he said was a mistake and that my pickups were sitting there. Afraid of losing even those wrong pickups, I stupidly fell for paying again for them to which he promised he will ship as soon as he receives the payment. That was June 17...
Then, between all sort of excuses and long silence from him here we are in Sept; same non-working tracking number, blaming USPS, periods of completely ignoring my calls etc... and again another quite colorful language/verbal abuse from him, and few other pearls that honestly I have a hard time believing that anyone in the right mind would use while replying to an ebay open case?? Anyhow, you get the picture.
So I am asking you TB'ers, does anybody have some advise for me on how I can finish this peacefully? There must be some of you with past experiences that might help.
It's really hard for me to understand that somebody that creates something, a product with such a beautiful sound can be so painfully gross and such a pathetic liar. I have read some of you saying that he's actually a nice guy etc which I would really like to believe, but how can I reconcile with the side I see or was revealed to me? How can I open that door and trigger that nice side in him? I just feel that I would like to end this in a peaceful and decent way. Also, I would hope that by reading this some unsuspecting guys (like me) would repeat same mistake I did with this guy no-matter how appealing the sound of his pickups might be.
Any help, ideas, advice etc would be soooo welcome.
Thanks
Julian
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