There is truth in this. We don't just stand there and look at our shoes. We engage in the same kind of play-acting that you see in professional wrestling. When one of the guitarists has a flashy solo, we hoot and holler at him, like he's having this great breakthrough, even though he's playing exactly the same line as he did the night before. Etc. It is, most definitely, a performance.
This.
When I'm paying money to get in, I do not want to see somebody who looks just like me doing exactly what I would be doing in my home studio. I want to be wowed by the total package. Sound good, look good, and I'm good with it.
Note: Also show up with the full band? I'm getting pretty sick of these "groups" booking smaller venues and showing up with just the singer/guitarist, the bass player, and maybe the drummer. Call it "a more intimate performance" if you like. (Yeah..."intimate" my arse bro!) But at least make it abundantly clear in your advertising - and don't wait till I get up to the door - to inform me that: "This is a special performance...so it's not the entire band that will be playing tonight."
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