There is a strong generational component to this debate; my band is half middle age dudes and half 20 somethings. I, of course, represent the older half which doesn't have nearly the drive for exhibitionism that these young guys have.
I’m not completly convinced it’s purely exhibitionism although I’m sure there’s more than a bit of that in there too. I suspect it’s more a shift away from empasis on actual results as opposed to “effort” and good intentions. And that does seem to be a generational thing where trying to accomplish something is psychologically one and the same with actually accomplishing it. Almost as if the declaring your intent is as praiseworthy as actually pulling it off.
Dunno. I can’t get my head around that mindset. But I never believed in magic or magical thinking. Affirmations, self love, and good intentions may be a good strategy to keep yourself motivated going through those occasional dark times we all go through. But in and of themselves they can’t change reality. You still have to get up and do something if you want something to change.
Back in the 80s, when the “power of positive thinking” was all the rage, the mantra among that crowd was: “Every day, and in every way, things are getting better and better.” It eventually fell out of vogue once people woke up realized they weren’t.
Long observation and reflection has taught me the main difference between a dream and reality is that reality has teeth - and it can bite you.
But that’s a generational thing too I guess.
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