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Love is...

Eric Cameron said:
Well, I'm managing. It's not nice to know that other people have gone through what I have, but it's at least a comfort that I'm no alone.

But to be honest, I kinda thought things were going badly anyway. So in a way, it's a relief to have the worry and anxiety over. I wish we could have worked it out, but I guess you don't get everything you wish for.

There is another girl at school, however, that has been making eyes at me for some time. She's a very smart, attractive woman, and after the beginning of the term I might try and ask her out. Not anything serious, just a kinda casual date. Maybe something will come of it, maybe not.

Rock on
Eric

It couldn't hurt. Hell...it might get you back in the saddle. But, be mindful of her feelings. She might genuinely like you, and you've just gotten out of something intense, so you may project your feelings about your ex onto her.
 
Hmmm. Somehow I get the sneaking suspicion that those children were hand picked from thousands of others whose answers were something along the lines of "Love sucks! Cooties are gross!" I mean, don't those answers seem a little too perfect?

Hmph. Me and my ways...:hmm:
 
Joe Nerve said:
That was awesome, glad you posted it. If someone sent it to me as spam I'd have deleted it. :) My favorite is definitley:

Bobby - age 7 (Wow!)
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"If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a friend who you hate."

It's real easy to love the people you like, the people who are close to you. I think the real challenge is in loving the people you abhor. When people start practicing that is when I think the world is going to see a real shift in consciousness.
That was Nikka, age 6.
 
Kronos said:
It couldn't hurt. Hell...it might get you back in the saddle. But, be mindful of her feelings. She might genuinely like you, and you've just gotten out of something intense, so you may project your feelings about your ex onto her.

She's a different enough girl from my last that I don't think I'll have any trouble keeping my feelings apart. New girl (I'm not gonna use names here) is very outgoing and outspoken, which is not a character trait that I have had much expieriance with in terms of dating. My last was fairly introspective and quiet. I kinda helped her out of her shell a little bit. But she's nowhere near the level of social interaction that New Girl is. But social interaction is what I need right now. And yes, I'm going to be VERY mindful of her feelings. There are now three women in this world that I have hurt. I do NOT want there to be a fourth.

Rock on
Eric
 
kserg said:
Eh dude, did you mean to? If something bad happens that sucks but if you didn’t mean that to happen then why be so hard on yourself.

It happened because I got sloppy and made mistakes. I either didn't devote my full attention to them, or made them feel unloved. Nothing was on purpose, but all of it could have been prevented.

You're not a bad guy, if I didn’t have a penis I’d date you.

I'm not quite sure where to take that.:D:eek:

Wait, don't read to far into that!! Damn me and my smutty mind!!:rollno:

Rock on
Eric
 
FretlessFreak said:
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"When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different.
You just know that your name is safe in their mouth."

Billy - age 4
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"Love is what makes you smile when you're tired."

Terri - age 4
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"Love is what's in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and listen."

Bobby - age 7 (Wow!)
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"If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a friend who you hate,"

Nikka - age 6
(we need a few million more Nikka's on this planet)
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"Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day.

Mary Ann - age 4
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"When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you." (what an image)

Karen - age 7
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Does anyone else see a future as lyricists for several of these kids?
 
i dont have a gf,fiance or wife. love is when your mom, every christmas places a stocking on your favorite bass, which she knows is pretty much like your right arm and then proceeds to put money in the stocking so you can get strings or picks or whatever for the bass. my mom died 4 years ago and i keep putting that stocking on my bass every year in hopes that........
 
Eric Cameron said:
She's a different enough girl from my last that I don't think I'll have any trouble keeping my feelings apart. New girl (I'm not gonna use names here) is very outgoing and outspoken, which is not a character trait that I have had much expieriance with in terms of dating. My last was fairly introspective and quiet. I kinda helped her out of her shell a little bit. But she's nowhere near the level of social interaction that New Girl is. But social interaction is what I need right now. And yes, I'm going to be VERY mindful of her feelings. There are now three women in this world that I have hurt. I do NOT want there to be a fourth.

Rock on
Eric


come on over and socially interact with me baby...I'm free now since finals will be done by this time tomorrow.

and in sake of this thread....Love is little chemicals in our bodies and sometimes 101010101010 1010101 101010 10101 101010.
I just wanted to play devilish advocate.
 
Eric Cameron said:
Do make me break out the Milli Vanilli.:D

Rock on
Eric

You said "DO make me" there for i will!

Say my name, say my name
When no one is around you say baby I love you
If you ain't runnin' game
Say my name, say my name you actin' kinda shady
Ain't callin me baby why the sudden change
Say my name, say my name
If no one is around you say baby I love you
If you ain't runnin game
Say my name, say my name you actin' kinda shady
Ain't callin me baby
Better say my name

Remember the other day
I would call you would say
Baby how's your day
But today it ain't the same
Every other word is uh huh yeah ok
Could it be that you are at the crib with another lady
If you took it there
First of all let me say
I am not the one to sit around and be played
So prove yourself to me
If I'm the girl that you claim
Why dont you say the things that you said to me yesterday

I know you say that I am assuming things
Somthing's goin' down that's the way it seems
Shouldn't be no reason why your actin' strange
If nobody's holdin' you back from me
Cuz I know how you usually do
Where you sayin everything to me times two
Why can't you just tell the truth
If somebody's there then tell me who

Say my name, say my name
When no one is around you say baby I love you
If you ain't runnin' game
Say my name, say my name you actin' kinda shady
Ain't callin me baby why the sudden change
Say my name, say my name
If no one is around you say baby I love you
If you ain't runnin game
Say my name, say my name you actin' kinda shady
Ain't callin me baby
Better say my name

What is up with this
Tell the truth who you with
How would you like it if
I came over with my clique
Don't try to change it now
Say you gotta bounce
When two seconds ago said you just got in the house
It's hard to believe that you are at home by yourself
When I just heard the boys or the voice of someone else
Just this question why
Do you feel you gotta lie
Then caught up in your game
When you cannot say my name

I know you say that I am assuming things
Somthing's goin' down that's the way it seems
Shouldn't be no reason why your actin' strange
If nobody's holdin' you back from me
Cuz I know how you usually do
Where you sayin everything to me times two
Why can't you just tell the truth
If somebody's there then tell me who

Say my name, say my name
When no one is around you say baby I love you
If you ain't runnin' game
Say my name, say my name you actin' kinda shady
Ain't callin me baby why the sudden change
Say my name, say my name
If no one is around you say baby I love you
If you ain't runnin game
Say my name, say my name you actin' kinda shady
Ain't callin me baby
Better say my name

Where my ladies at (yea yea yea yea yea yea)
Can you say that come on(yea yea yea yea, yea yea yea yea, yea yea yea)
All the girls say (yea yea yea yea, yea yea yea yea)
What i cant hear you (yea yea yea yea)
All my ladies say (yea yea yea yea, yea yea yea yea)
All the girls say(yea yea yea yea, yea yea yea)
Break it down ohhh...
Come on

Say my name, say my name
When no one is around you say baby I love you
If you ain't runnin' game
Say my name, say my name you actin' kinda shady
Ain't callin me baby why the sudden change
Say my name, say my name
If no one is around you say baby I love you
If you ain't runnin game
Say my name, say my name you actin' kinda shady
Ain't callin me baby
Better say my name

Baby say my name



Go on, do your worse!