Found out "making it real means different things to different people. As for me making it real means not being a pretender. I want to own up to who I am and not try and pretend to impress others. The other day, I was praying and meditating. Heard the garage door open and knew my wife was home. I looked around to make sure I had the right books open to impress her. Really? May seem like a small thing but living life with an attitude like that is too much work.