I'm in a band with one 39-year old, and the rest of us are over 60. I'm 65. My past understanding has been that rock and roll bands memorize songs and don't go dragging music stands around. I'm the only member of this band that knows all the songs. We sound pretty good and have a small local following, but I hate to see people looking at cheat sheets and tablets and whatnot all the time.
Some of these songs are relatively challenging on bass, and since I don't read music (well, not really), I learn the parts and play them. Many of them have "signature" bass lines, like "Wild Night", and "Valerie" (I forget which version, but it's the faster one with the cool bass line, not the Mark Ronson arrangement), some Stevie Wonder tunes, and so on.
It's weird to me that after 18 mo. or so together, the lead singer forgets the words, the keyboardist plays chords wrong, and the guitarist has to look at his notebook between songs. Is it because pot's legal here? I don't understand.
We get a good reaction from the crowd, so maybe I should get over it, but I'm not bringing a stupid music stand. This isn't Lawrence Welk.