I'm in a band with one 39-year old, and the rest of us are over 60. I'm 65. My past understanding has been that rock and roll bands memorize songs and don't go dragging music stands around. I'm the only member of this band that knows all the songs. We sound pretty good and have a small local following, but I hate to see people looking at cheat sheets and tablets and whatnot all the time.
Some of these songs are relatively challenging on bass, and since I don't read music (well, not really), I learn the parts and play them. Many of them have "signature" bass lines, like "Wild Night", and "Valerie" (I forget which version, but it's the faster one with the cool bass line, not the Mark Ronson arrangement), some Stevie Wonder tunes, and so on.
It's weird to me that after 18 mo. or so together, the lead singer forgets the words, the keyboardist plays chords wrong, and the guitarist has to look at his notebook between songs. Is it because pot's legal here? I don't understand.
We get a good reaction from the crowd, so maybe I should get over it, but I'm not bringing a stupid music stand. This isn't Lawrence Welk.
I could not possibly agree more!!!
I'm just a few years behind you and when I was a wee scad, you learned the songs - backwards and forwards and inside-out - and
then, you were ready to gig.
I don't know if one can lay the blame at the doorstep of the legalization of the demon weed because, when we (you and I) were younger, there was plenty of "Better living through chemical enhancement" of all kinds, going on. I was more of a blackout drinker, but my party didn't start until three songs from the end.
I think this issue is a symptom of the nature of our lives. I used to have fifty phone numbers at a time memorized. Now, I doubt I could recite twenty.
We've got "memorization assistance" everywhere we turn these days and people (by-and-large and in many facets of life) have gotten lazy. We depend on the technology far too much and waste the grey matter which could be employed for memory for other, more trivial pursuits.
We once had a drummer who had a solid month to learn five new songs. When he contacted us, he was very proud of the fact he could read drum music. Kudos to him. It's not something I've ever been able to do.
He shows up for his audition and, sure enough, he takes a small music stand and an ipad (or some kind of tablet) out of his gig bag. Alright, I'm a wait-and-see type of guy.
In a song we had given him to learn there was a drum fill which was integral to our timing as well as the song. Guess where he had to pause to advance the music he was looking at on his ipad? You got it. Right in the middle of that roll/fill.
There were two other songs (so three, out of the five) which he didn't "nail".
We gave him two more weeks and told him to go home and really learn (memorize) the songs. I even mentioned to him that I found his ipad to be a bit problematic.
Two weeks later, same [poster self-censor]/different wind direction. The other guy was Hell-bent on accepting this drummer. I put up a struggle, but eventually walked away.
I hooked up with another band and while I was "on the circuit", I used to hear little bits and pieces about how unprofessional (and in some cases, laughable) that band seemed.
It's a shame, but I believe it's a sign of the times.