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Men Shaving... I'll never understand

I have a long face, weak mouth, and comparatively strong eyes/nose, so a short beard balances my whole head out. I'm quite capable of growing a gargantuan Viking beard, but I'm a jewelry salesman and can't have my customers inquiring to my boss about the talking Kodiak in a necktie.

I don't believe shaving is necessarily masculine or feminine, just like most everything. We tend to get caught up in tagging things with gender a bit too often, methinks. However, if you're going to shave, do it right and get a straight razor! I use one to clean up my neck, and it's by far the most effective and efficient way to get the job done.
 
Some men can grow beards some men can't. Some women can grow sparse beards and some can't. Does that mean each gender must modify their look to fit with what society deem as 'feminine' and 'masculine'?

If you saw the 'stache on the woman who works the Chic-Fil-A at my university's building you'd change your opinion REAL quick :hiding:
 
I believe that it should be a case by case thing. People should do what's best for their skin.

I have ridiculous acne, and when I shave I have a moderate breakout in roughly the shape of a beard and stache about 2 days after I shave. So I only shave every 3 weeks or so. But when I do shave, my skin is super clear until days 2-3.

Anyways, if I didn't have to look moderately decent for work, school and church, I wouldn't shave at all.
 
I think scientifically, technically facial hair is more "masculine". There's a reason why women generally can't grow facial hair. Why? I guess I'll leave that up to the scientists. I'd like to see some of your wives start to grow beards and we'll see how you change your mind about how "feminine" they are ;)

Otherwise, I'm in favor of wearing the shoe if it fits.
 
My facial hair grows obscenely fast. My skin is very sensitive. If I wanted a smooth face, I'd have to shave at least every day. My girlfriend prefers a beard. I prefer a beard. If you don't like it, you won't get a moustache ride.

In high school, I would shave in the morning and could feel stubble by lunch.
 
My facial hair grows obscenely fast. My skin is very sensitive. If I wanted a smooth face, I'd have to shave at least every day. My girlfriend prefers a beard. I prefer a beard. If you don't like it, you won't get a moustache ride.

In high school, I would shave in the morning and could feel stubble by lunch.

I dated a Nova Scotian. They love their beards out there.

Gorgeous women too. I came back to NY and was depressed...no literally, all the fat people out here crushed me.
 
This is my goal for when I'm an old man:

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I keep a beard just because it looks good on me.
 
Even when I stop shaving, I have to shave that little bit on the corners of my mouth, otherwise I get this terrible chafing. Does anyone else get that? Or am I doing it wrong? It gets all red and sometimes dries out and gets painful. The hairs are all abrasive; hate it.

And Brian Wilson's beard is just glorious. Brett Kiesel of the Steelers also has a glorious bit of facial hair. They own the benchmarks. Some of us have patchy facial hair, so don't hate. Not all men can grow beards equally.

As for it being feminine... uh, no. I'm not sure where that delusion comes from. Maybe there is some kind of insecurity or gender confusion going on... not sure and not dogging on anyone, but to say that I am feminine for shaving is just silly.
 
I guess most people didn't realize I was joking! I thought it sounded funny. Point is if y'all didn't take the time to shave MY beard wouldn't be so bad ass.

Seriously I'm getting failed attempts of put downs, in other threads, related to this one.

It was a joke.

I hate shaving.