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He'll always be an addict. It's up to him what he wants to fill the void with!
Yup, if he is an addict. That one is not my call.
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He'll always be an addict. It's up to him what he wants to fill the void with!
tastybasslines said:I'm not sure I get that one...
leegreenman said:Alcohol is potentially as addictive and dangerous as any other drug.
catcauphonic said:I didn't read through all the posts here after the first page, so I don't know if anyone has brought up Suboxone yet.
Jmatt, look into Suboxone (beuoenephrine) (Subutex) for your friend. And then show him.
Betty Ford clinic uses it, it is by far a saving grace. For opioid addicts.
It actually blocks the opioid from getting the person high when taken properly. It also almost eliminates all Symptoms of withdrawal.
It has a higher success rate than anything on the market that I've seen.
And just my experience, I've NEVER seen, heard, or known of ANY opioid addict to be able to flat out quit voluntarily in a month or two.
Unless it was seriously just a recreational thing which is almost unheard of in itself.
This isn't something you just up and decide to walk away from because your life sucks and your friends aren't talking to you.
The first 2 weeks is similar to having the worst flu you can possibly imagine, with every nasty flu symptom there is, then times that by like ten.
Your body feels like its been run over by a Mac truck twice and then backed over for safe measure.
People don't just say yeah life really isn't good right now so I'm stopping. Well many do and then by day 2 or 3 (if they're that strong)
Rolls around and typically the want to feel better is beyond control. This is where most go out and over do it and die.
If you really care about this guy I'd highly recommend you talk him into seeking out a Suboxone clinic, if he's definitely WANTING to stop. And also a good bit of counseling.
Once he learns to be sober again which is a process in itself that can take years , depending.
He's gonna be the same person he was before the drugs, with the same issues, the same whatever that lead him down that path.
It may be okay now but one day soon things will get bad and someone will be there with a bag and a needle.
This isn't to rain on your parade at all.
This is me handing you a really nice umbrella and letting you know there's a sh!+ storm a comin' and your gonna need everything you can to block it from getting all over you.
Most addicts must hit absolute rock bottom to even really want to change, and by the time they do there's so many innocent people sitting there wondering where they went wrong.
Don't let him pull you down with him.
The best thing you can possibly do for an addict is completely shut them out 100%
No calls, no help, no friendship, no money, no rides, no NOTHING.
Demand total sobriety or NOTHING.
Anything you do beyond NOTHING and you are enabling him. Even if it's simple stuff. And it all adds up to his addiction lasting longer.
Your job as a friend is to help Rock Bottom along as best as you can. That's the only way to help an addict.
Unless you are a therapist, mental health and or behavioral medicine specialist, LCSW, psychiatrist, drug and alcohol recovery specialist/ counselor, etc.
There is NOTHING you can do to help except nothing. Again demand sobriety with the only negotiation being all or nothing. No second chance no do overs.
Good luck, I hope he really has started to clean up, but if he was any kind of regular user it's just not likely it's true or will last if it is. Sorry I'm trying to be realistic here.
im sorry man. i'm all for the legalization of drugs, but some people have problems with things that can't be fixed without assistance, be that government or whatever. i hope he gets help, but please know that it isn't your fault. keep in mind that he is just your friend, and that you can't control destiny or fate and you can't change the course of time. you're awesome and i'd hate to read about you being hurt (i love reading your posts and your threads), and i hope that he can find help. Some people have problems, and heroin is extremely physically addictive (more than any other drug that i know of), and i hope he can find help.
Actually heroin is less addictive than caffeine or nicotine, don't let the legalization of things fool you.
Suboxone is also fairly expensive to my knowledge.
I also do not recommend al-anon, alcoholics anonymous, or NA these groups are only useful for providing other recovering support friends, other than that they push a religious agenda on already weak minded people, you become addicted to god instead of drugs. It does nothing to cure their inherent addictive personality.
jmattbassplaya said:I brought up Suboxone to my friend and he told me that he has gotten a prescription either for that or something similar to help him out. Apparently it's been working really well for him.
jmattbassplaya said:I brought up Suboxone to my friend and he told me that he has gotten a prescription either for that or something similar to help him out. Apparently it's been working really well for him.
Tell them to be careful. I see suboxone ods all the time.

jmattbassplaya said:Geez, it's just danger at every corner with this kind of stuff isn't it![]()
Suboxone is getting MUCH cheaper as we go.
Right now were still paying for the R&D stages of the medicine. Like with any medication.
More and more insurances are starting to pick it up as a legitimate step in recovery and it's getting pretty manageable to do on your own as opposed to the way it was 2 years ago.
The cost per pill is down to below $8 a piece right now. 2 years ago they were closer to $12 a piece.
Soon once they've made their cash back they'll sell the proprietary blend/rights to it and well finally get a generic form of it and then it'll be dirt cheap.
If anyone remember 15 years ago a script of Percocet was several hundred dollars w/o insurance. Now 90 will set you back right around $100-$150 at the pharmacy even for name brand.