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My friend is on dirt

It's great to hear that your friend is a handle on things.
I didn't see this thread the first time around but my thoughts are with anyone who is hooked on **** they can't quit. That includes all the brave souls in the Effects forum who I thought this thread was about when I saw the title.
 
Jmatt, look into Suboxone (beuoenephrine) (Subutex) for your friend. And then show him.

Betty Ford clinic uses it, it is by far a saving grace. For opioid addicts.

It actually blocks the opioid from getting the person high when taken properly. It also almost eliminates all Symptoms of withdrawal.
It has a higher success rate than anything on the market that I've seen.

And just my experience, I've NEVER seen, heard, or known of ANY opioid addict to be able to flat out quit voluntarily in a month or two.
Unless it was seriously just a recreational thing which is almost unheard of in itself.

This isn't something you just up and decide to walk away from because your life sucks and your friends aren't talking to you.
The first 2 weeks is similar to having the worst flu you can possibly imagine, with every nasty flu symptom there is, then times that by like ten.
Your body feels like its been run over by a Mac truck twice and then backed over for safe measure.
People don't just say yeah life really isn't good right now so I'm stopping. Well many do and then by day 2 or 3 (if they're that strong)
Rolls around and typically the want to feel better is beyond control. This is where most go out and over do it and die.

If you really care about this guy I'd highly recommend you talk him into seeking out a Suboxone clinic, if he's definitely WANTING to stop. And also a good bit of counseling.

Once he learns to be sober again which is a process in itself that can take years , depending.
He's gonna be the same person he was before the drugs, with the same issues, the same whatever that lead him down that path.
It may be okay now but one day soon things will get bad and someone will be there with a bag and a needle.
This isn't to rain on your parade at all.
This is me handing you a really nice umbrella and letting you know there's a sh!+ storm a comin' and your gonna need everything you can to block it from getting all over you.

Most addicts must hit absolute rock bottom to even really want to change, and by the time they do there's so many innocent people sitting there wondering where they went wrong.

Don't let him pull you down with him.
The best thing you can possibly do for an addict is completely shut them out 100%
No calls, no help, no friendship, no money, no rides, no NOTHING.
Demand total sobriety or NOTHING.

Anything you do beyond NOTHING and you are enabling him. Even if it's simple stuff. And it all adds up to his addiction lasting longer.

Your job as a friend is to help Rock Bottom along as best as you can. That's the only way to help an addict.

Unless you are a therapist, mental health and or behavioral medicine specialist, LCSW, psychiatrist, drug and alcohol recovery specialist/ counselor, etc.
There is NOTHING you can do to help except nothing. Again demand sobriety with the only negotiation being all or nothing. No second chance no do overs.

Good luck, I hope he really has started to clean up, but if he was any kind of regular user it's just not likely it's true or will last if it is. Sorry I'm trying to be realistic here.

Yes you did, & you explained it all very well too. As far as I'm concerned the stuff is a modern miracle. Problems like his/ours don't go away just by stopping using. STAYING clean is harder than GETTING clean. Here's a few links to forums similar to this one:

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Good Luck!
 
im sorry man. i'm all for the legalization of drugs, but some people have problems with things that can't be fixed without assistance, be that government or whatever. i hope he gets help, but please know that it isn't your fault. keep in mind that he is just your friend, and that you can't control destiny or fate and you can't change the course of time. you're awesome and i'd hate to read about you being hurt (i love reading your posts and your threads), and i hope that he can find help. Some people have problems, and heroin is extremely physically addictive (more than any other drug that i know of), and i hope he can find help.

Actually heroin is less addictive than caffeine or nicotine, don't let the legalization of things fool you.

I wish you the best for your own health, your friend has enough people wasting sleep over him. The sad thing is that you cannot stop him, you have to let him hit rock bottom and clean up himself. Interventions are for the people that hold them, addicts never clean up because of interventions, they clean up because of their own free will and volition.

I have never had an issue with junk, where we are it is extremely uncommon, but I have spent more on a weekend "party" than plenty of people make in a year, left with nothing to show for it. I have seen plenty of dead friends and serious problems, the only ones that clean up do it on their own powers. I was sent o a couple drug counselors/rehabs and none of it worked.

Methadone is a legal drug, it is like e-cigarettes, probably the absolute worst way to quit. Suboxone is also fairly expensive to my knowledge. There is also another drug/medical procedure where they can flush the junk out of your system in a matter of hours so you don't have to be dopesick for 3-4 days, which can be a major deterrent in people getting clean. There is nothing worse than being cold and sweaty for days, especially when you cannot poo but you feel like taking a 10 lb load off.

I also do not recommend al-anon, alcoholics anonymous, or NA these groups are only useful for providing other recovering support friends, other than that they push a religious agenda on already weak minded people, you become addicted to god instead of drugs. It does nothing to cure their inherent addictive personality.

It is a terrible thing to get caught up in, all you can do is stand your ground and not enable him worse. I am glad to hear your friend is doing better but at this point he is far from clean, he has a long way to go and many decisions to make. You just have to support him and let him know your there to listen.

The thing is, most addicts never do beat their addiction, they merely become very good at avoiding it, which is fine for some people. I still occasionally indulge in my old drug of choice, and I know many recovering alcoholics who still occasionally go out and drink, the thing is all about moderation and learning when to stop and go back to your life, you cannot let your addiction control your life even after you've stopped using. That is truly beating your addiction in my opinion.
 
Actually heroin is less addictive than caffeine or nicotine, don't let the legalization of things fool you.

Suboxone is also fairly expensive to my knowledge.

I also do not recommend al-anon, alcoholics anonymous, or NA these groups are only useful for providing other recovering support friends, other than that they push a religious agenda on already weak minded people, you become addicted to god instead of drugs. It does nothing to cure their inherent addictive personality.

The top two statements are both extremely true. Though Bupenorphine (suboxone or subutex) is quite often covered by most insurance plans. With insurance an average Dr visit & script will run you about a $100 A MONTH for both - you can easily spend more than that PER DAY on H if you're in deep, so I don't think it's expensive at all compared to using.

And although I no longer go to meetings, & definitely don't agree with everything that 'they' claim, I do think that in the very early stages of recovery the support from former & like minded people is critical. There's a difference between God & a Higher Power of some sort, it's just that a lot of people there tend to call their higher power god. Your higher power could be just a collective room full of people, which technically is a power greater than myself. You take what you need from the experience & discard what you don't on your way out. Best of luck to your friend whatever road he chooses.
 
Suboxone is getting MUCH cheaper as we go.

Right now were still paying for the R&D stages of the medicine. Like with any medication.
More and more insurances are starting to pick it up as a legitimate step in recovery and it's getting pretty manageable to do on your own as opposed to the way it was 2 years ago.

The cost per pill is down to below $8 a piece right now. 2 years ago they were closer to $12 a piece.

Soon once they've made their cash back they'll sell the proprietary blend/rights to it and well finally get a generic form of it and then it'll be dirt cheap.

If anyone remember 15 years ago a script of Percocet was several hundred dollars w/o insurance. Now 90 will set you back right around $100-$150 at the pharmacy even for name brand.

It's only going to get easier from here.

I've helped about 13 VERY VERY heavily opioid addicts get better thanks to the help of Suboxone.
I have 2 others I'll be taking next month with me that want to stop. And there are many more to go behind them. My hope is to help all that I know.

Most of these people failed for quite a while before I turned them onto this stuff. Every one of them are now in a better place and finding great success.
 
jmattbassplaya said:
I brought up Suboxone to my friend and he told me that he has gotten a prescription either for that or something similar to help him out. Apparently it's been working really well for him.

Then he may very well be onto a good start,
Most Dr's will start the patient out the first 2 weeks on Subutex which is very similar to Suboxone but has other ingredients to further assist in those first two weeks of the body detoxing.

Suboxone's actual name is Buepenepherine.
There is nothing else "like" it, which is why it's so ridiculously expensive. The company has a miracle drug and a firm death grip on the market right now. That will change but I assume if he's got a script it's for Suboxone or well methadone. (Hopefully not methadone)
 
jmattbassplaya said:
Geez, it's just danger at every corner with this kind of stuff isn't it :hmm:

It's a medication, care should be taken just as you would with any other medication.

That's what instructions are for, and Dr's and such.

I mean it's definitely possible to OD on it but I've never seen or heard of ANYONE ever OD'n on it.
I'm around and in contact w/ huge amount of people taking it.
My father is a behavioral science therapist (drug counselor basically.
I also have two very very non professional under the table type relationships with Suboxone prescribers and the questions come up numerous times.
I've not once heard it answered with a "yes such n such OD'd the other day or last week"
Not saying it hasn't happened, or couldn't happen.
But in my opinion I choose to view it as a VERY safe medication. More so when compared with what your taking it for.

Maybe others are exposed to circumstances where they see it's effects more than me but I've just NEVER heard of a single case of it.
 
A lot of good stuff hear and some that is not so good advise IMHOP. If you are struggling with addiction or know someone that is there are a couple of things you should consider. It is okay to have debates and opinions about different things but addiction is literally a matter of life and death for some people. It is not like having a debate over flatwounds vs roundwounds. Ask yourself "is what I am reading based on experience and fact or is it an opinion?" I am not asking you to believe anything I say based on my word. With something a serious as this check out your options. How many people have recovered using the things or techniques being talked about? How many people have stayed lost in their addiction trying to do some of these things? What is the percentage of success verses failure? This is not about being right or wrong but for some it is about living or dying. Your life depends on the decisions you make.
My apologies to JMatt for going off on a tangent. This is a huge issue in our world and I am glad you are real and honest enough to bring it up.
 
Suboxone is getting MUCH cheaper as we go.

Right now were still paying for the R&D stages of the medicine. Like with any medication.
More and more insurances are starting to pick it up as a legitimate step in recovery and it's getting pretty manageable to do on your own as opposed to the way it was 2 years ago.

The cost per pill is down to below $8 a piece right now. 2 years ago they were closer to $12 a piece.

Soon once they've made their cash back they'll sell the proprietary blend/rights to it and well finally get a generic form of it and then it'll be dirt cheap.

If anyone remember 15 years ago a script of Percocet was several hundred dollars w/o insurance. Now 90 will set you back right around $100-$150 at the pharmacy even for name brand.

It's usually a case of a the patent expiring. The patent protection gives you a monopoly for 20 years, but, you need to start patent protection before testing. It isn't uncommon for it to take 15-18 years for a product to go through testing, leaving only a few years in which to make back the R&D money for the drug (and the failed ones).
 
Well, most things taken as prescribed aren't fatal, but I get what you mean.

I've only known one person to go through rapid detox, but that's something to think about. Since that's one of the biggest barriers to quitting, if you have the insurance and/or cash to have that done, it'd be worth considering. Unfortunately, the guy I knew went back on the bad stuff, but that had nothing to do with rapid detox. It was just him and how he managed sobriety.

If he tries to cold turkey it, valium is the way to go (as said: no drinking). It's just going to be impossible to get a script for those reasons. He would have to do an in-patient thing, and those can be either nice places, or dirty, sketchy places.

How have things gone? Is it over? How is his state of mind? Does he want to get off of it? Has he gotten blood work to check for chronic blood-borne pathogens? If you don't mind, it'd be great to get an update.

Best of luck. I feel for the both of you, and everyone else involved.
 
Today I was physically attacked (on the job) by a heroin user. We were called to a possible OD. Arrived and he immediately got aggressive and then violent. He apparently was dopesick all night last night and today when he still couldnt get any he took a bunch of triple bar xanax. PD was there and he was subdued and taken into custody and he agreed to go to the hospital and check himself in.

We have had over 30 fatalities from heroin OD's so far this year in the county I live in. I have ran at least 25 OD's myself so far this year. Thank God for Narcan (naloxone). A buddy of mine had a user tell him after an OD that he wasnt scared of dying cuz as long as the Paramedics got there soon enough and "gave him that narcam stuff" then he didnt have to worry about dying.

Last year one of my closest friends growing up OD'ed and was found dead in his room by his mom. He had been living with her for the last year or so after losing most everything. At 25 y/o the guy was making well over six figures. At 44 he died penniless and virtually homeless.

Absolutely horrible stuff and I wish you and your friend success in his recovery. The only thing I know is that unless he really wants to get better he won't.