Okay -I've had a few folks asking me about video clips for this. This is the situation.
WHAT I SHOULD HAVE DONE: I should have said at the start of the gig, "People, there's enough of us in here to get the whole thing recorded. Most of you have phones that will do good video, just take it in turns and see if you can get most of the stuff down for me." Damn, damn, damn... it sounds so easy now.
WHAT ACTUALLY HAPPENED: I only made a point of asking for recordings for the number my Dad played on.
As a result, I have several (pretty decent) recordings of that tune. The file sizes are big but I will try and find a way of sharing here at some point. But although I'm delighted Dad got up to play, I have to be honest and say an 82 year old drummer doesn't show off the band at its best (sorry, Dad).
I also have a couple of very short clips of the small band (from the first set) playing "Low Rider" and "We Are Family", about 20 seconds each.
That's it. I'm hoping some more stuff might turn up, especially of the big band, but I'm not optimistic now. I could really, really, really kick myself for this. But I was so busy on the night and I sort of assumed (yeah, I know) it would happen. If only I'd said... (see above).
I am heartbroken, to be honest. One of the best nights I've ever had and a dumb oversight means I have almost no record of it. The earlier posts in this thread saying to make sure it got recorded make me want to cry right now.