Outside of Lovelace, what food places are real southern in feel? Really want to get a taste of the south whilst I'm down there.
Southern food is easy to nail. It's really not complicated, minus the proper frying of meats. When I think of Southern atmosphere, I imagine old wood floors and walls (creaky and sloping), a minimal, poor, utilitarian atmosphere, a wood burning fire place with the smell mixing with fried foods, and, most importantly, communal eating. Enjoying the company of others while sharing food is at the core of it. I honestly can't think of a place that replicates that (Cracker Barrel tries, and gets close, but it's just too big now). So, Southern food and the atmosphere focus on community and food. Those two things are most important anyway.
Arnold's Country Kitchen isn't fancy by any stretch of the imagination (think cafeteria). But, their food tastes like my wife's grandmother's cooking. Her grandmother, who is now in her mid 80s, grew up in a log cabin here in TN. She learned to cook from her mother and so on, and it's what I assume is authentic Southern food. Lots of fat, lots of calories, but it is good.
Then there is Monell's. Monell's has communal seating, it's in an old Victorian house, and their food is highly rated. Atmosphere wise, it's going to be close, but the Victorian house ruins it for me.
For Nashville hot chicken, go to Prince's if you want the original. Fried chicken is a Southern staple, so you should check out this hot chicken craze that's going on around here. Party Fowl and Hattie Bs are two popular spots. Hattie Bs is very tourist oriented, but their hot chicken is no joke.
Puckett's Grocery. It's also a live music venue. I've been there a dozen times, and it is reliably good with an excellent beer selection. It does feel Southern in atmosphere.
And, lastly, Cracker Barrel. It's a massive chain spread all across the South and probably elsewhere for all I know. Regardless, I can attest that their food is traditional southern cooking. They really try to nail that atmosphere that I'm talking about, but it still feels very much like a restaurant.