It depends entirely on the band and the bassist in question. You can hear the bass loud and clear in bands like Periphery, Tesseract, Gojira, etc.
I'm sure you're right. I'm sure I just got a bad impression somewhere along the way and never gave it much of a chance. I'm not young, and there's definitely an element of a generation gap here. I'd say more about it, but I think the following diatribe has it covered (some of you may need a "safe space" after you read this...apologies):
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